Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Transbot90210, Jan 29, 2006.
I am. And I also hate steak.
The absolute love of my life left me last May, absolutely randomly and has ignored me since She hasn't even given any reason as to why she did it, she's totally avoided it. We were together six years and out of nowhere BANG wtf I treated her as well as I could and I was always loyal and sweet, romantic, etc.
People are fucking crazy. Leave them alone and they feel ignored, lonely, insulted even...show them some attention and they feel smothered and get tired of you!
It's really tearing me up, I'm not over it at all and I know it'll probably take her coming to me first if we're ever to talk again or make up, but I always get insanely depressed and end up calling her or something to no avail, she totally avoids me. This happened last night even, I ended up crying my ass off to the point that it made me sick and I ended up dialing the fucking numbers, and surprise, no such luck once more.
Most would probably say just move on, but I know how I feel and I know she and I had something really good and I thought for sure that it was gonna last, and I'm not giving up on that.
Sorry to hear it.Don't want to be rude,but there is a thing called closure.Maybe it's time you should move on.Obvisouly,she has.
I can't have closure without knowing what went wrong atleast. If she had talked to me about it and told me everything rather than just dropping the bomb with no explaination then doing everything to avoid me, maybe I could have worked on moving on, despite how much I wish I didn't have to.
Don't forget ability to do laundry and wash dishes, the two qualities, behind huge boobs of course, that I feel are most important in a woman.
Hah...Alot of my female friends have tried to turn me into that.
But they never cared to date me.
Women are pigs!
Care introduce me to them then?
wait,wait,wait.....you have women offering you sex with no strings attached- AND YOU'RE COMPLAINING???????????
buy a 100 pack of trojans and get busy young man!!!!!!!!!!
I'm teh Pope!
wekll, it appears she has ridden you of her life, so what more can you do?She doesn't have the desency to give an explanation, then shes' not worth the time or day.
Nephy here is speaking the truth. You'd really want an explanation, you'd even give her the time of day?
Fuck. That. Shit. Yes, fuck it. Now, it sounds harsh, but you know, someone you were with so long just ups and leaves? Fuck them. They are not worth YOUR time. You are better than that, and if you don't think so, then you're crazy. As painful as it may be, you have to just move on. Do whatever it takes. Get blind drunk for a month. Go on vacation to Amsterdam and go nuts. But do not let her get to you like that, she has shown you NO respect, and for that she doesn't even deserve the chance to explain herself to you, because she is clearly a coward.
Apologies for language there, but damn man, that's some cold shit right there.
i hate women cuz they suck.
You guys are probably right and thanks for the support, but I'm still just blindly holding on to some stupid hope that she'll suddenly come back, apologize, and that things will be ok again.
I know it won't happen though. I'm just stupid.
Bluntly put, yes, you are stupid.
She left you nearly a YEAR ago. I'm no stranger to heartache (hello, my ex fiance who was going to be the mother of my child up and left me one day to fuck her ex who blatantly told her he just wants to use her for sex) and it took me getting pissed off at her to finally move on.
And the second I did, she begged me back. To the point of collapsing on the street in tears because I was leaving to go to my current girlfriend's place.
And I haven't looked back. And I never will. Her life will be miserable because she gave up the best thing to ever happen to her -- someone who really did love her and wanted to spend the rest of his life making her happy. Not good enough for her? Well, then fuck her. Fuck her and all that she thinks is right in her fucked up life.
I deserved better than her, and once I believed that, I got someone even better. Now it's your turn. You have to make her the enemy before you can move on. Turn that depression in to hate. How DARE she fuck you over like that? How DARE she act like she is better than you. FUCK HER. Repeat after me. FUCK. HER.
Call her. Leave a voice mail. Tell her she's fucked in the head, that you've spent all this time moping because of her and you're a fucking fool for it. Tell her she will be the one to always sit and wonder what could have been because she is the one who fucked up and left. Then tell her to fuck off, that you've turned the page, you've given up on the happy ending you wanted for the two of you, and she can now take solace in the fact that your thoughts will now be on new women who will appreciate and perhaps love you more than she ever did, or ever would.
Fuck her dude. Just fuck her.
Hmmm, ok - couple of things about my wife:
- Everybody that meets her thinks she's the greatest
- Nobody who knows her can find a negative thing to say about her.
- Hot. No kidding - *really* hot. Doesn't have to try to be.
- Doesn't get that she's hot... which is pretty hot in itself.
- Morally conservative & upstanding.
- Cheating, divorce, separation, etc... utterly unacceptable to her under any circumstance.
- Thinks I'm the greatest thing on the planet.
- Makes my lunch and leaves a sweet note in it every day. Every. single. day.
- Queen of the thank you card.
- Socially graceful & always thinks of everybody else first.
- Incredible mother. Hope my daughter can be just like her mom.
- Makes me want to be a better person just to keep up with her.
- Every morning I watch her sleep and realize I may be the luckiest person I know.
- Martha Stewart in the living room, Julia Childs in the kitchen, and Pam Anderson everywhere else.
So yeah. NEVER SETTLE. I waited a long time for her, and it was worth it.
Congrats ams, it sounds like you've really got it made there.
Kickback, I did read what you said, just don't know what to say back really. I know you're trying to help and I thank you for that. I'm glad that you were able to turn things around and are better off now.
Think she'd write TFW2005.COM on her chest?
Oh, did I leave that out of my list? My bad.
And let you take photos to distribute?
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