Screw changing myself, or acting like a "normal" human being. If a girl doesn't like me for who I am, thats their problem, and they aren't worth my time. I am not normal, and I take pride in being that way. Sure, I'm the "Nice Guy" in most situations, but thats who I like to be. I show plenty of self confidence when I am around people, but I'm not a jerk about it. Girls who are attracted to the jerks turn me off, no matter how hot they are. A girl who can appreciate the nice guy, no matter what she looks like, is an absolute catch! My last girlfriend was that type. They are rare these days, but generally only come in the "geeky" variety, which I like, lol.