ok, got a moral dilema and need opinions from those who cant communicate with actual people i know, no offense. so heres how it starts: my gf of 6 1/2 years asks me the question no guy wants, "if you could which one of my friends would you sleep with?" so i figure i havent taken a beating in a while   and answer truthfully. ok so far. i find out last week said friend has a mutual attraction for me. so, last tuesday we were alone and one thing led to another and kissing ensued. the "other girl" is basically the town slut, doesnt want a relationship with me, and is perfectly cool with not telling her friend/my gf. so the question is: do i go for it? and feel free to chew me out on this one, and if this is too adult please tell a mod to remove it.

 

So you're asking people you don't know to use their respective personal ethics and morals to answer a question for someone they don't know? Interesting.

Obviously the answer is no, don't cheat.

 

i mostly looking for a community perspective from people with similar interests as mine. and to see if anyones actually as crazy as me to entertain the idea of cheating. and thank you for being honest drippy it does help

 

Is your interest hurting the people you care about? I hope to God you don't find a community willing to tell you to cheat on your girlfriend.

 

Don't do it... Some way or another your girlfriend will know and then the 6 1/2 years will be for naught...

 

your going to destroy a 6 year and half relationship with your g-f for a slut?

dont do it

 

don't be stupid.. it could be a test devised by your gf and said friend..


of course, If you do it.. I don't mind catching it on Jerry Springer..  

 

I forgot to mention, if your girlfriend is willing to JOIN IN... Then that changes everything...

 

fuck no. My fiancee' of 4 years cheated on me and acted like it wasnt a big deal. it utterly destroyed me. Trust me when I say it is the most disrespectful thing you can do to a person, and you are a piece of shit if you go through with it. You obviously don't respect your girlfriend at all if you're even considering it.

you said we could chew you out for it, and I did.

 

break up with your current g/f and then sleep with her friend... then get back together with her. Then your not cheating.

 

If she gets around alot don't kiss her she probably has some kind of disease. Ethical issues cheating is bad. Would it be ok for your G/F to cheat on you? Would you be like "oh you slept with that guy that sleeps with everyone, oh don't worry sweety it's ok" You are going to regret it if you cheat. Ask yourself if it is really worth it.

 

Even though I do not have much experience with relationships, I would also say do not do it. If you love your girlfriend then you should not even have to ask this question. Why blow a six + year relationship on one night of carnal desire? (Not that I am against carnal desire for us single people... hell I need some in my life)

 

I agree with an above poster. Seems a little too convenient to find out that friend has a crush shortly after saying that was the friend you would do. It's a set up. She's testing your love for her considering you've been dating for 6 1/2 years and have yet to propose marriage...

 

On a related note, anyone see the new Old Spice commercial?

The one where the guy is in the shower and the girl is all "if you could sleep with one of my friends, which one would it be? C'mon, I won't get mad, I'm just curious."

The looks on the guy's face are priceless.

 

Town slut + could be a set-up = NO FUCKING WAY.

 

No, don't cheat. Why do you even have to ask that?

 

I find it odd that this could even be a question...

My answer would be to not cheat, you're basically not caring whether or not you hurt your GF. If you're finding it alright to cheat, then perhaps its your relationship with your GF that needs questioning, not whether or not you should cheat.

 

That was the first thing that popped in my mind when I started reading this thread. Kinda weird that she would ask that question after that commercial has been airing. It might just be a set up.

 

I say go ahead and sleep with the slut. You obviously don't care about your girlfriend since you're asking a bunch of strangers what we think.

You've already got two strikes against you since you answered the original question in a way that sets you up and then walked right up to the girl in question and kissed her.

I think you are being tested and that you've already sunk yourself. Personally, if you care a wit about your girlfriend, go to her and plead for forgiveness otherwise it's too late and you're screwed so you might as well sleep with the slut.