The Official TFW Heartbreak Hotel/Forever Alone/Relationship Advice Thread

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Nachtsider, May 9, 2012.

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  1. Dark Skull

    Dark Skull Well-Known Enabler Veteran

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    Wrecker, it almost seems like you're emotionally vested. And without any clarification on both of your feelings for each other (or at least what you want vs what she wants), this could end badly. Take your time. Have no expectations. Let things happen naturally and just go about it normally and see what happens.
    This way....if nothing happens, you either won't be disappointed, or as disappointed. In short....it'll hurt less if not at all.
     
  2. transformervic1

    transformervic1 HI!

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    ..So what happens when an ex, who's dated quite a few after you, can still manage to smile, giggle, and blush at you?
     
  3. Haloid1177

    Haloid1177 Hey, That's Pretty Good

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    She obviously craves your dick and requires you to relieve her sexual frustration.

    Or maybe you're a funny guy and embarrass her. Who knows?
     
  4. tikgnat

    tikgnat Baweepgranaweepninnybong.

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    Exactly, they always come crawling back to the zapper.
     
  5. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart. RIP Spike and Mojo.

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    on july 4th, i went to help my ex at her church for a party where her face brighten up and a big smile appeared and a hug for showing up. i didn't read into it but i think she misses my tongue work. :) 

    the food was great.
     
  6. Star Sabre James

    Star Sabre James The JUICE

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    ILD - I'm crossing everything in hopes that the tests come back good.
     
  7. Aernaroth

    Aernaroth <b><font color=blue>I voted for Super_Megatron and Veteran

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    She's still capable of human responses?
     
  8. Biotoakid

    Biotoakid Whew what an old username

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    Pretty heartbroken that for me to have a place ot live in Nashville for school in September I have to move into the tonwhouse Friday. So I am but damn short notice like shit I'm leaving everything and everyone I know in a week
     
  9. Dio

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    Nashville's a gorgeous area with a ton of awesome culture and nightlife to experience... it may seem scary now but I hope this turns out to be one of the most memorable experiences of your life!
     
  10. ILoveDinobot

    ILoveDinobot You can, you up. No can, no BB.

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    My baby has trisomy 13 and everyone time we have a sono they find a new deformity. Now, they are not seeing an esophagus. Which of course is really bad bc you can't feed. So, I think we all know how this is going to end. Not to incite moral debates, this is because of a medical issue and to end baby's suffering. Baby stopped growing in size about a month ago, and is now becoming increasingly deformed because of it. I can't let it suffer like this. This is the last thing I ever wanted. :cry 
     
  11. MasterZero

    MasterZero Taking a Break

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    I'm sorry for what's happened to you. No one should have to go through that. I'm so sorry...
     
  12. ILoveDinobot

    ILoveDinobot You can, you up. No can, no BB.

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    It only happens in 1 in every 16,000 births according to cdc.gov. They test you at 8 weeks for Trisomy 18 and 21, I don't get why they don't throw 13 into there too. It would save a lot of people and babies pain and suffering.
     
  13. tikgnat

    tikgnat Baweepgranaweepninnybong.

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    Oh no ILD, I'm so so sorry.

    *Hugs*
     
  14. Star Sabre James

    Star Sabre James The JUICE

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    I know nothing I can say can help you ease your pain in this sad time ILD. I'm not a parent, and have not been in your shoes. Words can not describe how sad I am for you and your husband, and I wish you both the best in this trying time with your little one. I wish the results were different.
     
  15. transtrekkie

    transtrekkie On the level.

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    I'm so sorry to hear that ILD. I really was hoping and praying for a better outcome. My thoughts and prayers to you and your husband.
     
  16. Dark Skull

    Dark Skull Well-Known Enabler Veteran

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    I don't think anyone in their right mind would want to make a moral debate about this. Either way, I'm sorry this happened. I am at a loss for words....
     
  17. bookwormdalek

    bookwormdalek Gotta get a grip

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    :(  I'm sorry ILD...
     
  18. AlphaPrime

    AlphaPrime Neo Autobot Commander

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    ILD :(  so sorry my friend.....
     
  19. Wheeljack_Prime

    Wheeljack_Prime Searching for the Infin-Honey Stones

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    Man, nobody should ever have to hear that under any circumstances...
     
  20. tikgnat

    tikgnat Baweepgranaweepninnybong.

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    ILD, have you or your husband carried out tests to see if either one of you is a translocation carrier of
    trisomy 13?
     
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