Talking about it doesn't really solve anything. Cutting one's self isn't usually about the pain you get from the cutting; it's about controlling one type of pain in your life. Most times one cuts themself to control this pain, because they can't control another type; often due to circumstances beyond their control. I cut, and I have a friend who cuts. Sometimes the pain is a relief, sometimes it's therapy either way it's very unhealthy and dangerous. As I said, talking about the cutting doesn't usually get results, it's better to find what caused the cutting, and deal with that.