relationship help: stay friends or ask her how she feels?

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  1. Poho

    Poho That's MISTER Poho to you

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  2. butz

    butz slippery when wet

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    I still think going for the BF is the way to go here.
     
  3. Ops_was_a_truck

    Ops_was_a_truck JOOOLIE ANDREWWWWWS!!!!!!

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    Agreed. Date the boyfriend. Make her jealous. Works every time.
     
  4. Optimus Sledge

    Optimus Sledge Yar har fiddle di dee

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    Surely it's a good ending? Only way it gets better is if she doesn't complain when you wipe yourself off on the curtain, then goes to get you a sandwich.
     
  5. Gigatron_2005

    Gigatron_2005 President of Calendars

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    I can personally vouch that this is completely untrue after you factor out the mentally ill and the hambeasts.


    I say if shes in decent shape and friendly, go for it.
     
  6. Omnius

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    May as well just go straight to stage 7! :lol 
     
  7. Lintson

    Lintson Active Member

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    Wait for a breakup if there will be one.

    In the meantime find out who started that rumour because unless you two spend way too much time outside of work with each other, someone is trying to screw you over.
     
  8. red4

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    almost every girl I've ever met in my entire life
     
  9. Moonscream

    Moonscream YES, We Exist, and We DON'T Want to Date You

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    You know, if she's purposely ignoring you, there's a chance she thinks YOU started or contributed to the rumors.

    She has probably never even considered you in a romantic way, since you're almost ten years younger than her and at those ages it does make a difference. And obviously she must love her boyfriend despite any doubts if she's that angry about the rumors.

    Back off. If she still wants to be your friend, then she'll come back. If not, then she's made her choice and its not you.

    --Moony
     
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    Okay, I just shot milk out mah nose.
     
  11. red4

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    I'd say fuck it. The situation is too complicated, and it's not likely to end in your favor. Just step aside, and don't try anything with her. It's fine if you're still attracted to her, but don't try anything at all - don't even contemplate it - until the situation has subsided completely. As it stands, it's really not worth the trouble at all. I've been in almost the exact same situation - it even went so far as the girl cheating on her boyfriend to spend time with me. The primary problem was that the girl was an idiot. To be fair, I was an idiot to let her exercise infidelity. Everything else sounds the same in your situation; don't let it escalate like mine did.
     
  12. newguy

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    Kill her boyfriend, and be the first one to her side.
    Make it look like an accident or suicide.;) 
     
  13. Toxicon

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    Buy a carton of ice cream.

    Sit on couch.

    Eat said ice cream.

    Cry.

    Repeat if necessary.
     
  14. red4

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    To be fair, 99.9% of all western society 20-year-old girls are batshit insane. Not saying those of other societies aren't insane, but I'm talking from experience. An older girl, with a somewhat stabler mind, wouldn't hurt.
     
  15. Gigatron_2005

    Gigatron_2005 President of Calendars

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    I dont think that they're batshit insane, but I do think that they are simply awful people.
     
  16. red4

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    and what makes them awful is insanity
     
  17. Chaos Muffin

    Chaos Muffin Misadventure Veteran

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    Has this girl seen your Transformer collection yet?
     
  18. red4

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    On the off chance that she's as awesome as Mia? (rest her soul)
     
  19. flamepanther

    flamepanther Interested, but not really

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    Wait, I think you're getting ahead of things in the drama department. He hasn't started dating her boyfriend yet.
    The hard part is finding one who didn't get knocked up while she was insane and who didn't lose her looks or become boring when all the crazy went away.
     
  20. Gigatron_2005

    Gigatron_2005 President of Calendars

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    Ohhhhh!!! I forgot about all the knocked up chicks. The are never going to get sympathy from me for having a child with a douchebag and have effectively removed themselves from the dating pool.