Somehow, God must hate me somehow. Remeber those threads about me having some problems with girls, yadayadada? Well, actually it apears that it was a chick that actualy liked me at some point, but me in my allmight stupidity never took her seriosuly and never noticed her and becuase of a) she was into a weird church UCKG (Universal chruch of the Kingdom of God, and I thought she might be just using that to draw me in and b) because I sometimes have a hard time belive that someone may actually care for me. Well we recently started talking again and at some point of said ocnversation she actually confessed she once liked me alot but since I was a jackass to her (not my fault, I never tooke her serisously), she was now pissed about that and despite she forgave me being an ass any hopes of me jumping the bachelor´s boat aytime soon are ashe). moral of the story: the universe really must hate or such...
I'm pretty sure I did that with my first big crush right at the end of public school. Looking back on it now, unless by some incredibly unlikely twist of fate that I'm wrong, it was incredibly obvious too. I really should've taken the chance (I liked her a lot too).
General, from what you said, it seems like you didn't like her that much. Don't date her or whatever just because she likes you. You will never be truly happy unless the love goes both ways (*awaits bisexual comments*)
A tarp, indeed. You're better off without her. You shouldn't settle cause you're a young man. We old bachelors have to settle.
Dude it sucks but most people have been there. When you look back at it you're all like "HOW COULD I NOT HAVE NOTICED!?!?!"
Unless you molest children, I'd say that's rather unlikely. In fact, I'd say skip down to the bottom to see why God's probably looking out for you. As someone else said, they are scary. 1) If she actually forgave you, she would not be "pissed about that" and 2) She sounds like someone you're better off without. Despite what T.V. tells you, it actually IS better to be single sometimes, compared with who you could end up being with. In all honesty, if you are a praying man, I'd say a little prayer to God tonight, thanking him for being your wing man and helping you dodge the bullet here. I'm not sure if you've ever been in a serious relationship, but yeah.. there's worse things than being single.
This happened to me once, and years later, when she confessed this to me, I finished the job this time. So yeah, go finish the job
This is the part we need to change, my friend. If you don't like yourself, there's no way you can expect someone else to like you.
I came into this thread for the very same reason. I thought to myself "Geez, that sounds pretty tricky". Big Letdown.
What he said. I mean, I'm a female, and if she was pissed because you didn't know back then and blah blah blah and forgives you but is still pissed about it then screw her, dude. There was a time I kind of liked this guy in HS, but he blew me off, and years later we started hanging out and I was kind of going through a crappy time. I think he wanted to start something with me. But I was far from ready for another relationship and even told him. 8D I probably won't be for a long long looooong time. I mean, I just get a long better with guys because 99.9% of the girls I ever knew were craaazzzzzzzy. And.. yeah he ran off and asked out this other chick who he kind of said was crazy, in a different way, the whole time he saw me. >> No ill will on either of them. But yeah I wasn't pissed at him at all. I just couldn't handle a relationship and he sure as hell didn't need to deal with the baggage I had back then. ...I have had two shots of rum and 10mgs of Valium and can't sleep so.. don't mind me if that babble of there doesn't make sense. 8)... Insomnia sucks.
Let's see if my First Rule of Relationship/Girl Problem Threads is adhered to... I love these threads.
sorry dude but That's 110% your fault, how does not taking someone seriously justify being a jackass to them? Be a decent guy to everyone unless they deserve it, even if you don't take them seriously, you'll be golden if you do this.
