It's strange, I've been so much happier since I split up with my wife. I spent two weeks in Louisiana more or less by myself and I had never been happier. I'm back in town now, spent the weekend with my sons, hung out with a few friends, talked to a couple others on the phone and or AIM, and I'm finding that I enjoy being a loner. I was talking to a female friend of mine on the phone the other night and she tells me "I really need to see your face." Thing is, I love her to death, but I just don't feel like seeing her, I don't feel like seeing anyone right now. I don't know if I'm turning into a crazy hermit or what, I just really am enjoying having so much time by myself.
id say your enjoying your time with out a woman, and not wanting to get back into a relationship right away after a divorce is perfectly normal
Things work out for the best! Ironically, I am trying to date a girl that just got out of a divorce last year. She is being really protective of her kids, and herself, It's hard for me to see the other side of the coin. I think you nailed it, man!
yeah, i hate people too. which is why i usually threaten them when they knock on my door. and wear jackets or long sleeve shirts when im in public.
Good to see you enjoying your newfound freedom. I still love being married but when my wife took our son out of town to see her parents I was free for almost 2 months and that felt great. Just take it easy with your dating life and don't get into another relationship before you are ready.
Until you hit the dating scene again and have to worry if the chick has a dick or an STD. Wierd stuff out there...no way in hell would I want to be single these days.
Being solo is awesome. Glad you're liking it. I used to be a loner, just wanted to be left alone all the time. I was pro at screening calls. Now I get lonely if Im by myself for 5 minutes , gotta call somebody or something.
