How to date a girl who is bi?

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  1. amd098

    amd098 En taro Artanis!

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    keep it MISB and AFA it!
     
  2. Skor

    Skor I HATE U TRASH MONSTAAAR! TFW2005 Supporter

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    I fail to see a problem here.


    But then again, I'm not looking for one.
     
  3. autobotblaster

    autobotblaster Y U NO!?!?!

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    see, i always thought shibamura's post were like a box of chocolates. Sometimes they are amazingly thoughtout- like the chocolate with penut butter in it, sometimes they are half assed- like the chocolate with tooth paste in it
     
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    Never ever ever trust anyone that says they are bi. Bi just means I can fuck around on you whenever I like because that's "who I am". So don't move back there, she is using you to make her GF jealous.
     
  5. ckhtiger

    ckhtiger old skool fool

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    I would also like to point out that he mentioned in an early post that the on/off girlfriend is NOT attractive.
     
  6. Metal Soldier

    Metal Soldier The Robot

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    I'd leave it alone. My experience with a bi girl did not end well.
     
  7. Takara_destron

    Takara_destron Mainly lurking these days

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    Neither did mine.
     
  8. Aernaroth

    Aernaroth <b><font color=blue>I voted for Super_Megatron and Veteran

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    According to him. For all we know, she has a deep emotional connection with the "target" in question, is a demon in the sack, or simply is something the other girl finds attractive. She was attractive enough to be this girl's off/on girlfriend, right?
     
  9. the (H)i(GH)con

    the (H)i(GH)con raver-in-diguise

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    I've dated a few bi girls,and also had a few "weekend flings" with a few bi girls too. And while I can't say they're all like this, the ones I dated were hypocrites. I've found that most bi girls (around here at least) have the "I can have sex with other girls without you, but if you have sex with other girls without me, it's cheating" mentality. And 2 out of the 3 I dated said they'd never have a threesome because they wouldn't want to see me with another girl... I think most "bi" girls aren't really bi at all, it's just something they use to attract guys.

    I'd leave it alone if I were you. Like others have said, it won't end well. I know it sounds great, but it will only go downhill. You have a better chance of winning the lottery than of building a stable relationship with a girl who has a girlfriend. If you're just trying to have some good, no strings attached, kinky threesomes, I reccomend hitting up some nightclubs, college bars, or even finding a casual hookups website(never done the 3rd one, but I know someone who gets lots of trim from those sites)
     
  10. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart.

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    You can do it!
     
  11. Omnius

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    Look on the bright side: she'd be versatile in a threesome.
     
  12. Moonscream

    Moonscream YES, We Exist, and We DON'T Want to Date You

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    Here's how I predict it will go if you move out there:

    - You move out there, get yourself an apartment, practically bankrupt yourself because you have to find a new job. But its okay, this chick is totally into you and you're gonna make it work.

    - Things go well for a few weeks. You get a new job, your own place...unless she invites you to move in, which you most likely would do. She starts hanging out with the other girl again, since she still cares for her (made obvious by the fact she keeps getting back with her), but she cares for you, too. Maybe there's a threesome on the horizon.

    - You get in a fight. In the heat of the moment you call her girlfriend 'ugly', or otherwise indicate verbally exactly what you think of the other person that she cares so much about.

    - You post on here wondering why she kicked you out on your ass and won't speak to you anymore, and wondering if you 'made a mistake' and 'what should you do now'.

    - You receive a resounding 'YES! WE TOLD YOU SO!' among all the jokes about what you should do now.

    --Moony
     
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  14. autobotblaster

    autobotblaster Y U NO!?!?!

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    bite his head off. . . . . .woops!:eek: 

    i mean "you can do it, all night long!"
     
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    ...If you B&Q it.
     
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    Would you ever move out to be with a girl that had another boy friend? If you aren't getting any three way action this is really what is happening here. Doesn't matter that the other person is a chick. Your 'bi-sexual' girl friend will aways be emotionally attached to anther person that is not you.
     
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    Yup. My fiancee is bi.
    Now then.
    Hrm.
    See this?
    This is the opinion of someone who has either been fucked over by someone who just happened to be bi and is therefore bitter about it, or of someone who honestly doesn't have a fucking clue what they're talking about.
    What you are talking about is being polyamourous, NOT being bisexual. Polyamourous means you sleep with more than one person; bisexual means you are attracted to both sexes.
    At the very closest, Mechatron, you're talking about someone who is both. Or a slut. But being bi does NOT automatically equal being slutty. Whoever told you that needs a slap and a decent education.
     
  18. BadJeff

    BadJeff Bite my shiny metal ass!

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    Sorry i didn't read the first 4 pages but...
    I can't see it panning out well. Now, if you did get a 3-way out of it though i would consider it a complete success. Mathematical equation says likelihood of 3 way increase exponentially when recovering Bi is introduced to the formula. I could be wrong though..
     
  19. wildfly

    wildfly Formerly the next big thing.

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    Edited, becasue i'm just stepping on people's toes.
     
  20. Molini

    Molini spawn of a glitch

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    agree 100% with the above statement. I've dated two bi girls to date, and guess who the cheater was? Me. Sexual preference doesn't equate to one's promiscuity. Both of the girls I dated were very good people, and had been hurt by both sexes in relationships...I just put another strike on the male sex for them.
     
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