bah.. It is just a holiday created by chocolate companies, flower shops, jewelers, and Hallmark. The traditional gifts makes a guy look bad if you look at the deep meaning. Flowers is fading beauty. Chocolates make her ass fat. Card means your are cheap. A teddy bear means you think she is immature. Jewelry means she is a whore and you are trying to buy sex. A nice big mealsignifies you either think she is already fat so might as well go for broke or that she is too damn skinny. Skimpy clothes means you think she is a stripper. a gift card means you are thoughtless. It is a no win situation. I say end this holiday and just treat the girl right 365 days a year.