im sure just diving in now, a spouse could be taken by surprise.. Me? Im grandfathered in. Im 40, and I met my wife 20 years ago, and I always had a "collection" of some sort..So she was all about it, in that "Anything you want baby.." Phase. Now..she just shrugs..and sometimes..MABYE once a year..she will surprise the living SHIT out of me, by bringing home something so awesome. Funny shit. If she ever (used) to say anything about it..I always replay "I could always fuel my needs and the stripclub, or drink it away.." With a smile..its almost a joke now. Gotta love this one for just how damn flexible it is to do different things with.