Yeah, I need help and/or advice. Theres a girl I guess Im friends with. She use to be real friendly with me. She'd talk to me frequently, hug me, and even agreed to be in my movie. But now she's rather... cold when I'm around. She barley says a word to me and really acts uncomfortable around me.

What is the problem? I do talk to her after school, so maybe I'm around her too much? I'd really like some answers please. Should I keep away for a few days, or let her go entirely?

(Note: any 'stick it in her pooper' posts will be reported)

 

B-B-B-But that's our resident meme! 

You made a movie? What kind of movie and what part did she play? It may have been something to do with that. Otherwise I would just ask her.

 

Maybe she's been reading your TFW2005 posts?

 

there is such a thing as being too friendly.

 

High School girls are finicky. Listen to the wrong song and they will change their attitude. Trust me, wait until later for a real relationship.

 

Sounds like she just ain't that into you anymore, son.

 

It's HIGH SCHOOL....

Maybe she liked you at one point in time and now doesn't. Meet someone else, it is the way of life for a 16 year old.

 

I have to echo this, man. It's a sucky option, but staying away from relationships in high school has been the best thing for me so far. It's just not worth dealing with all the crap when a real relationship won't even come from it. Not likely, anyway.

 

sounds like Facebookitis to me 

 

Huh, shes still being stand-off-ish? Thats weird, I dont understand HS girls, most of them anyway. Havnt u asked her whats wrong yet?

 

Seconded. I'd even extend staying away from relationships from your first year of college, that year in particular being high school part 2. I have so far and I haven't turned out so bad (I'm a sophomore). Speaking on behalf of college friends, the bullshit you have to deal with isn't worth it. Yes, you'll get experience, but there are other ways I've developed a lack of tolerance for bullshit.

Nothing wrong with flirting or making out at a party (unless she looks totally sketchy...then gtfo). From what I've seen, "serious" relationships typically don't happen until post-undergrad years. For now, relationships around here don't last more than 3 months top on average.

Unless you're into the one-night-stand thing. Your choice  

EDIT: We definitely need a thread for this kinda stuff. Like "The Official TFW2005 Dr. Phil Thread"

 

Almost all HS girls are finicky, and are only good for one night stands.

 

 

Just go to her and ask her what's going on. Maybe she took something you said the wrong way, or someone else said something about you and that affected her view of you. No matter what it is, you're only going to figure things out, possibly even fix things, by going to her....not us......

 

What's wrong with asking the person directly?

 

Well, if nothing was going on, it could mess up the chance to still be friends with said person.


Also, thanks for all the advice, guys. I'm still not sure what I should do, though.

 

She's a girl...they're impossible to figure out.

 

From how you describe it, she doesn't sound too keen on being your friend anyway. Might as well take the direct approach and put your cards on the table.

 

You could always try for the fourth hole  

 

As a girl who was once in high school I have some ideas of what is going on. It's high school. Does she have any friends that might give her shit for hanging out with you?

It doesn't sound like you did anything to make her uncomfortable unless you are leaving something out. I mean if you're friends and just hanging out I don't see what would have caused this from you unless you were overly focused on her or something.

Most likely some other girl or girls are giving her shit. That's the downfall of all high school girls. The other girls.