During a dinner a couple of day ago, me and my friends were discussing relationships. How could a guy become a girl´s "bitch" ("pau mandado" in portuguese). All of them pointed that I was tha type of guy because being the only one that a) hasn´t got a gf, b) hasn´t got laid, and c) because of my good nature (I´m a fairly likeable person). In the words of one of them "As soon as she open her legs to you, you will do EVERYTHING she tells you. You will not know hew to stand up to her because you are inexperinced" Truth be told, I have zero experience in relationships and that friend of mine knows me for over an decade, but I´m not sure on how this would go. I´m stuborn, in certain things i´m proud (sometimes borderline arrogant) and being a single son I sometimes suffer from the "can´t take NO for an awser" I´m also extremely pessimistic (as in hope for the best and prepare for worst). Were do you draw the line in your relationship? How can I avoid becoming someone´s bitch?