A Heartfelt Thank You

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  1. Arcee

    Arcee Optimus Scourge Forever TFW2005 Supporter

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    As many of you know my husband, Gary Clark aka Optimus Scourge, passed away recently. I am happy to report that through the generous actions of this board site's Admins and it's members I have been able to make arrangements for Gary's resting place. Without YOU this wouldn't have been able to happen and I am eternally thankful that I have friends like you.

    Gary loved this community and everyone that he met. As I look over the thousands of pictures taken over the years it is obvious that his happiest times were the ones spent at conventions, meetups, and various toy shows he and I attended. This was a love that we both shared and it breaks my heart to have to continue through life without him.

    Words cannot describe how grateful I am for all the support emotionally, financially, and physically I have received during this difficult time.

    Special thanks go to first and foremost Alex "Tony" of TFW for allowing the word of my need be spread, I am forever in your debt. Chris "Kickback" for being my shoulder to cry on, I wish you the best in life. Curt "Motor Master", Sherry, and Shane "BigBadBoomBox" (all TFW members) I am honored to have you three in my life, one of the few people Gary and I trusted and could depend on. Robert "Guskd", you took a weight off me and for once in my life I believed everything would be alright because you told me it would be.

    There are so many people I need to thank, some of which I don't even know your real names. Thank you thank you thank you. When I say you guys are family I truly mean it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    A Meetup/Birthday celebration for Gary will be held 11/20 in North East Philly. Details can be found on the Philly meetup page under Conventions and Get togethers on TFW http://www.tfw2005.com/boards/transformers-conventions-get-togethers/121395-philly-meet-up-130.html.


    11/20/11
    Casa Brazil Brazillian Barbecue
    6222 Bustleton Ave
    Philadelphia PA 19149
    215-744-6206
    time TBA (check the philly meetup thread or here for more info)
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  2. MTME

    MTME Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers
    He looks so young to have been taken, I'm so sorry.
     
  3. Overlord Balder

    Overlord Balder Voices Slugslinger!

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    I never met any of you on these boards, but I give you my sincere condolences.

    May he rest in peace.
     
  4. RHansen

    RHansen Sir. Ranbotnic Veteran

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    He was a hell of a man.

    Sorry again I couldn't make it out Luisa.
     
  5. mrgalvaprime

    mrgalvaprime IDW2019 Stan

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    My condolences
     
  6. Rusty24

    Rusty24 Well-Known Member

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    I never really knew the guy, but he sounds like a great person and a true fan. May he rest in peace.
     
  7. Nemesis Predaking

    Nemesis Predaking Offical Enforcer [email protected] Veteran

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    My thoughts still go out to you & your family.
    As Randy said, Gary was a hell of a man & a good friend.
    He will be missed.
     
  8. Ecchokat

    Ecchokat Ponyologiest for Hire!

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    My thought and prayers are with you and your family. Its never easy when you lose someone but memories help. My greatest condolences for your lose.
     
  9. TrueNomadSkies

    TrueNomadSkies Well-Known Member

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    I believe Optimus Primal said it best with... the greatest of Cybertron.

    Really makes me wish I had something better to say, but from one Gary Optimus to another, you know. :) 
     
  10. Belgrath

    Belgrath Boom! Nutshot!

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    You have my sympathies. Sorry about your loss.

    RIP Optimus Scourge, he will be missed greatly.
     
  11. Rumble02

    Rumble02 Radicon of Obliticons

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    We are here for anything you need.
     
  12. Barricade24

    Barricade24 The Decepticop

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    He had a Barricade logo on his shirt. I sadly never met him, but I wish you the best. Sorry for your lose. :( 
     
  13. Surge

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    I can't say I remember him. I see a lot of people on these boards and it's hard to keep track of all of them. Regardless, I'm very sorry about your loss. Too young to be taken so early. My condolences to you and his family.
     
  14. Chaos Muffin

    Chaos Muffin Misadventure Veteran

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    It was an honor knowing him. RIP Gary
     
  15. Liokaiser

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    It was a blessing to know him and you Luisa. My thoughts and prayers to you as you try and find peace through all this.
     
  16. chaddi_90

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    My condolences
     
  17. guard convoy

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    I am so glad to hear everything has been taken care of, you and your family are still in my prayers.
     
  18. FreshDebesh

    FreshDebesh <b><font color=brickred>oye chak de phatte!</font> Veteran

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    All the best, Luisa. I'll have nothing but fond memories from Botcon 07 because of you and Gary and all the cool people I met. Good times!
     
  19. MTME

    MTME Well-Known Member

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    this may seem like an inconsiderate question but may I ask what happened?
    He looks so young.
    I have recently been diagnosed with cancer at the age of 34 (well 33 I just turned 34)
    so naturally I am scared out of my mind.
    Like I said I don't mean to be inconsiderate, but if anyone knows?
    Again I wish my condolences. I'm so sorry.
     
  20. mrgalvaprime

    mrgalvaprime IDW2019 Stan

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    You looked like an attractive couple. I am sorry for him to be take away so early