A question to those in a relationship

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  1. Mike

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    Grab her back! that's what she wants!

    You're probably the only guy I've ever met that is concerned with getting molested by his girlfriend (or any girl for that matter), but if you're truely concerned, then ditch her and stay away from her. If she can't respect you and your concerns, then she doesn't deserve to be with you.
     
  2. darkmgmstr

    darkmgmstr Blue Lantern Corps Member

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    My advice on this is to wear the pants in the relationship. If you ask me, she is bossing you and molests you cuz she wants to see you take control. Girls love a man who can show they can take control of the situation and take care of it without them having to get their hands dirty. I also suggest to up your game. Raise the stakes on this. But I do advise that if her demands are impossible to keep up and meet, then you two should split. Hope it helps.
     
  3. llamatron

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    There's always viagra if you're not keeping up, so to speak.

    I'm curious though as your post was a bit ambigious - is it too much physical intimacy or the fact that you don't want any at all?
     
  4. Team Jetfire

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    and why would you even feel the need to have a girl friend in the first place???
     
  5. dkrolickm

    dkrolickm Beast Wars Predacon

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    You guys dont understand...
    She in my pants ALL THE TIME!!!
    She sees me for what I have, not who I am
    Its annoying...the only thing she ever does with me is rub on me.
    I know most of you think sex is all that matters, but I want something deeper than that...(Wow, that sounds wrong:sly2: )

    EDIT
    Thank you Deceptikitty, your the only one here who thinks like me...
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  6. onesock

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    She wants your cock dude.

    Like, BIG TIME. If you don't want the sex, you need to dump her before it gets worse.
     
  7. Lance Halberd

    Lance Halberd oh hai

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    It must be a pretty impressive cock then if that's all she wants.
     
  8. Bryan

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    After reading all these relationship threads lately, I'm much less embarassed about who I was in high school.

    I imagine if I'd spent a bunch of time posting on the internets about my teen angst, I might still be all interpersonally-impaired also.
     
  9. Mr.Roboto

    Mr.Roboto YOU'RE A SHRUB ROCKETEER! Veteran

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    Never, and I mean NEVER, compliment a woman. That will only fill their ego. There are rare occassions that it will be appropriate but when she asks for a compliment don't do it. As soon as you do she will always ask you for a compliment. There was a co-worker that would always fish for compliments from me and I always gave her the opposite response she wanted. It was her way of trying to see if I would kiss ass to her which failed.....long story short, she put out eventually.

    You should never agree with a woman unless it benefits you.
     
  10. Gnaw

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    llmatron's in this thread, looking like Autovolt.
     
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    You are too young to be wanting "more" from a intimate relationship. Dump her and find a friend, or buy a dog...but not a boy dog as it will still try and hump your leg...
     
  12. dkrolickm

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    So at my age a relationship is just supposed to be about sex?
    That seems dishonest to me...What do I know, Im probably just too imature for a relationship...
    Its probably because I live with my grandparents:banghead: 
     
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    im "pussy whipped", but only because my wife is smarter then me! she shows me food, music, and other stuff i would have never tried. she helps me dress so that i dont look like i got dressed in the dark. in fact she opened my eyes to a whole world i never knew. but at the end of the day i can still drag her to look at toys while we are at wal-mart!
     
  14. TonyzCustomz

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    The first thing you said today that makes sense! LOL That really is what you should be thinking about right now, Explore! Discover! but make sure to be safe. You are to young and immature to think about relationships and GF's are just eye candy and unwanted stress so who cares, break up with your current girl and tell her you still want relations, and find other girls(one for each day of the week maybe lol), you will feel free and happier.
     
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    What are you looking for in a relationship?

    I'm not saying that sex (or whatever) is everything, but it usually a prettybig deal for some one your age and it seems to me that you are looking for more of a friend than a girlfriend, per se.

    You are not to immature for a relationship, quite the opposite really. My advice, get with someone who wants more of the relationship and less of the poon-tang.
     
  16. Deceptikitty

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    Well, I'm kind of in the same boat as you in a way. I've always felt defective and weird because I'm just not interested in sex or even relationships for that matter. If you're looking for a companion, then you should probably find someone who's more into just an emotional non-physical bond.

    Maybe some of us are just evolutionarily broken. :lol 
     
  17. McBradders

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    I said "wow", for lotsa reasons.
     
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    i could go for some sex right about now.
     
  19. McBradders

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    You got my number, bby.
     
  20. tikgnat

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    In answer to the original post, theres a thin line between doing stuff for a girl because you want to, and doing stuff because you're her bitch. Keep that in mind when people ask you to do stuff for them and it might stop you being steamrollered over.

    Spank her for being naughty. PLUS! If you become the MASTER at sex, sex in a relationship will used as a weapon AGAINST HER, not against YOU.

    Become the master.