So, all of you have been very supportive. I haven't added much as alot is going on right now. Thanks for all the kindness. Just to update everyone, I am not unemployed. the reactions have happened for over a month strieght, I have been moved to one side, and the kid followed and just hung around and no one did anything to make things easier for me. I asked to move to a place that was secluded and was told it was not good for my career to make such a move to a safer spot. Well after today and having my eyes swollen shut and having more problems breathing i ended up quitting. Not my finest hour but i did leave in quiet albeit frustrated dignity. My lawyer called it a constructed termination, I was forced to quit. So, now the fun begins. I am looking for work and figuring out how to take care of 2 kids and a wife, and just before christmas no less. yay me~!