Why the hell?

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  1. eyeballkid

    eyeballkid Old

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    I have told a girl twice that I like her, she does not have the same feelings, yet she really wants to hang out. Why!!!!!!

    comedy ensues...This is tfw...
     
  2. Rodimus Major

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    An ego boost for herself? To make someone else jealous?
     
  3. My03Tundra

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    Maybe she just likes you for your body, and not your personality...

    Come on, dude, ask her why? It is likely something you said.
     
  4. NGW

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    She may like you..as a friend, just not like emotionally. No reason to really not hang out with her. I see nothing wrong with having girl friends, I have quite a few even that I hang out with on occasion. It's nice for a different dynamic than hanging out with the guys.
     
  5. Moonscream

    Moonscream YES, We EXIST!

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    Because she likes being with you AS A FRIEND. Geez...

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  6. ShortCircuit

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    Dont let it bug you too much.

    There may be many reasons for her not to show her colors for you, maybe she just doesn't want to commit, possibly for her not to hurt your feelings as well.

    Just play the game as friends so things will either develop into something, or go south....
     
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    Is this the same girl you wanted to snog while she was sick and babysitting a friend's kid?

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  8. Rodimus Major

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    There's nothing wrong with that, but if one of your girl friends told you they had feelings for you that you didn't return, and then told you again later they still felt that way, would you still want to hang out with them all the time?
     
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    It's called the "friend zone", you fell into it, good luck getting out of it. It's probably not worth actively trying to get out of it. Keep a friend and move on.

    And yes, you can have friends of the opposite sex that are just friends.
     
  10. Bumble Prime

    Bumble Prime all the time

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    i refer to the When Harry Met Sally Rule that men and women can't truly be friends because sex will always come up. ( the issue, not the actual act)

    Also you get one time to say how you feel, if she doesn't reciprocate then there is really no reason to bring it up again. Unless of course she changes here mind, in which case she will tell you.

    I feel your pain though man, It sucks being stuck in the friend zone. I would at least advise telling her to back off from you for a little while and give your pride some time to heal.

    Girls seem to always want to reinforce the friendship after an awkward talk about feelings for eachother. But I think any red blooded male needs some time to be away from her and let his self esteem and ego heal, hell maybe even find a new romantic interest. That way you get control of the feelings and they won't interfere anymore.

    So i say ask her nicely to back off and make sure she knows that you will be back as a friend ( if you come to that decision), after you have some time to level out.
     
  11. llamatron

    llamatron Shut up, Nigel. TFW2005 Supporter

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    Maybe she's a lesbian?
     
  12. Rodimus Major

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    That HAS to be it!
     
  13. Bryan

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    Why are you starting a new thread everytime you get angsty about this?

    And if you're not going to take advice from people, why post about it at all?
     
  14. llamatron

    llamatron Shut up, Nigel. TFW2005 Supporter

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    Hey SC he did take the advice.
     
  15. Pimpimus Prime

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    Some girls like the attention. Even if she doesn't like you in return, she likes the attention you give her. Like others have said, don't waste your time unless you truly want her as a friend.
     
  16. Boardwise

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    Why the hell do you have to start a new thread everytime on this subject?

    Please stop.
     
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