What should I do?

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  1. cambaprecoz

    cambaprecoz Well-Known Member

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    Girl problem.

    I've known her since we were 3, allright, we are best friends, almost siblings.
    But she began to act more "feminime" when she turned 12 or 13.

    She wears "cute" clothes that show off her figure, but not much.
    when I talk to her, she puts her arms behind her head and "thrusts" her chest forward, this makes me feel a little awkward, and she seems to do it on purpose, and she get umcomfortably too close. kinda like 2 inches in front of me.
    She spends a lot of time talking to me, sometimes just for the sake of it! I think she does it to be around me.
    When we are alone, most of the time she finds a way to get near me, like lying on my chest (her head) and whispering in my ear.

    Don't get me wrong, I really like her, we are best friends since we were toddlers!
    It's just that, I feel for her more like a sister or a cousin.
    And sincerely, I don't know if it's going to work, I don't want to hurt her feelings in any way and I fear that it will end up our friendship and we are so close to each other now.

    I'm afraid of falling in love.

    God I feel so confused.

    *edit*

    She is NOT ugly in anyway, mkay?
     
  2. MegaMoonMan

    MegaMoonMan www.megamoonman.com TFW2005 Supporter

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    Just do it.

    Seriously, she constantly sticks her boobs in your face and you are confused?
     
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  3. pscoop

    pscoop Dead inside

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    If she is ugly, tell her she is like your sister. If you find her cute in the littlest bit, get over yourself and see where it could lead.
     
  4. MegaMoonMan

    MegaMoonMan www.megamoonman.com TFW2005 Supporter

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    Oh yeah, forgot that. Is she uggo? That could explain the confusion.
     
  5. Lock Cade

    Lock Cade Tarn Fangirl TFW2005 Supporter

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    If you're not interested in having her as a girlfriend, or perish the thought, your wife, then you should try to put it as nicely as you can... "let's just be friends."
     
  6. honestgabe

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    Send Dear Abby a letter and ask her
     
  7. KA

    KA PENIS GOES WHERE?!!

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    cop a feel. PM jiggles for tips.
     
  8. ShortCircuit

    ShortCircuit Decepticon

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    You need to hit that before a go-bot fan taps it.....

    at least pinch her butt or somethin......

    you need to send signals too you know.....im not talkin a flare gun but dayumm....
     
  9. Sycia

    Sycia Draconian Faction

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    If you're not comfortable with it, tell her you're more comfortable with a more sibling-like relationship. Because the tone in your post says that she's more like family than a potential partner, and you don't even harbour that sort of open feelings to develop to the next level, there's really no point in forcing yourself in anything that'll get just plain weird.

    I would recommend just frankly telling her that she's invading a little too far into your personal space. And that you love her, but as a sister.
     
  10. Lance Halberd

    Lance Halberd oh hai

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    What should you do?

    Masturbate furiously.

    With or without her present.
     
  11. cambaprecoz

    cambaprecoz Well-Known Member

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    She is actually very pretty, it's just that, I can't see her as my gf.
     
  12. Jux

    Jux Please, call me Steve. Veteran

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    How old are you?
     
  13. Foster

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    How old is she?
     
  14. Gears

    Gears buh-buh-body ya Veteran

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    Tap dat ass.
     
  15. Zzeezz

    Zzeezz Ambassador of Music TFW2005 Supporter

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    She sending obvious signals. Regardless of what direction you want to take this, you're definitly going to have to discuss this.
     
  16. MegaMoonMan

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    I can already tell what's going to happen here. Let's imaginate the future a bit, shall we?

    You'll reject her advances, and she'll go on to find a guy that will put out.

    You will then become insanely jealous of all the time she spends with him instead of you, and you'll start wishing you would have just gone through with it in the first place, but at that point it will be too late - you blew it. She no longer looks at you the same way.

    She will then get pregnant by this guy, he will leave her, and she will come crying to you. You will end up helping her raise her kid, but in a strictly platonic way. She will date all kinds of creeps that you hate, but there's nothing you can do about it. Maybe she has another kid or three, all by different guys.

    Finally, after the kid(s) have moved out, you both realize that you should have been together from the start. Too bad you are both old and tired, and sex is now bland and no good. Popping out all those kids has made her loose as a goose.

    I believe the moral of this story is to do her, but wear a condom for god's sake.
     
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  17. pscoop

    pscoop Dead inside

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    :lolol  MMM I know you are serious, and probably right but the way it was said still made me laugh.

    Listen to MegaMoonMan kid.
     
  18. Autovolt 127

    Autovolt 127 Get In The Titan, Prime!

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    AS Kup said:D O IT DO IT NOW!
     
  19. Spartan-117

    Spartan-117 Well-Known Member

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    Trust Lance. This always works.
     
  20. TonyzCustomz

    TonyzCustomz Am I doin it rite? TFW2005 Supporter

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    That made my day :lolol . In all seriousness though I had a similar problem I knew this girl since kindergarten same thing happened and I never once made a move I kinda just ignored her all the way to college. At present we are still really good friends and I am engaged to a much nicer woman and am very happy. I can totally relate to you on her feeling like a sister or cousin. So you have a difficult choice to make, jump in and eventually break up and stop being friends or just brush her off and have a great long time friend. Its up to you but you have to really think about what you want. Just do not ever tell her that you do not like her, just say that you think of her as a friend and you think it would feel weird, trust me on this.
     

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