okay, this question is for those that have been to the altar, endured a wedding or two and knows a thing or two about em. i have a wedding invitation and i want to go (it is at the end of May). i want to look nice, but i also do not want to look like a propped up corpse in row 12... meaning, i don't want a plain-jane suit of black, blue, or whatever. what i want to know is: can i wear just about any kind of suit as long as it is indeed a suit and it isn't too flashy? like i would love to just once, wear something like this: to a formal event. the pants are loose enough for dancing at the reception, it is a dark color, and i can take leave the hat off if i want. i could be bolder and go for this red one: but as i said, i am not sure if that would be too flashy for a wedding (but seems okay for a reception, right?) any help with this so i can make plans to pick out something soon would be great.