Most of you don't know me. I'm new. I signed up for toy trading mainly. Just wanted some advice. I have a friend I've known for about 12 years. We collect DC toys. About a month ago, we hit a comic shop and I bought a Mattel Wonder Woman. In a hurry, I left the Despero leg in his car. Recently, I've started buying the whole series and I wanted the Despero leg. Turns out he threw it in the trash. Wonderful. Just to clarify, he knows the BAF parts are valuable and he trades/sells them online, so there's no reason he would assume I didn't want it. But he trashed it. Recently, I got all the rest of the parts to make Despero and he picked up Artemis. This means he had an extra Despero leg. I asked for it and he agreed. Well, the day he was supposed to drop by and give it to me(and play some video games), he changed plans and went to his brothers for the weekend. I texted him and asked if I could go snag it from his room(he keeps everything in this drawer. We pull stuff out of it all the time). He didn't reply, so I called up his mother and asked if I could drop by and grab it from the drawer. So I did. No sweat. I dropped in, grabbed the leg, and left. I get a text that evening that shocks me. He's acting like I broke into his house and DESTROYED it. He's telling me how he's ashamed that I would invade his space and betray our friendship. I didn't rifle through his house. I didn't break into his room. We have opened this toy drawer a thousand times to get stuff out. I knew exactly where it was. Maybe my definition of trust differs, but I don't mind any friend of mine dropping by my house to grab something they left or something that I gave them. Trust means I know they won't do something dishonest while they're here. Well, to sum it up...he's furious at me. He wants the leg back and is claiming I took the one he 'personally inspected' and wanted to keep for his Despero, even though the two legs were exactly identical. He's acting like I have a mental problem because I couldn't wait until he got home to give me the leg, when he's the guy throwing a fit over the whole thing. Was I really wrong to do this? I thought friends were just cool with this kind of thing. I do tons of favors for my friends and rarely get thanked for it, let alone do I ever get angry when they do something I don't like. He's also ignoring the whole issue that this wouldnt be necessary if he wouldnt have thrown away my belonging.