Opps, wrong forum..heh. Move it please.. Well, the title is a bit nicer than perhaps the reallity of it..I guess technically, it could be called an affair..As the person I've been with for a long time now is in fact married. But, that said, they are in court right now to finalize their divorce. And our relationship started long after they were originally cheated on by their spouce. And I wasn't the one to acted upon this originally..I was approached randomly--It was something I didn't even notice until I was confronted by it face to face. But for a very long time now, longer than any other relationship I've ever been in, we've been together exclusively. And most of it has been confined to the work place. And of course, after ..eh, I don't want to give names, dates or anything to particular, but, eventually people here found out about it, after a trusted friend betrayed us to them over a weekend camping trip with people he thought were his friends..and we of course all got the weird looks, and people talking..But it hasn't stopped us..And once the divorce actually is finished, we're excited to see where it can go from here.. Now, the point of this thread.. We've been informed, of course, as to how our employer does not support or want relationships at the work place. And that our boss certainly didn't approve of hearing about our numberous adventures on his desk..Or anywhere else in this place for that matter. And that, if we continue..We could both lose our jobs, or be transferred etc. We have tried behaving..And that never works..we've tried saying it's over..But after so long, it's just so natural for us to..do stuff, whenever we're around each other. The tease has always been the fun/exciting part..Doing it around these people, under the table touches, brush by..er, gropings etc. We've both tried to stop, and can't. But I also don't particularly want to lose my job. But, now that the divorce is so close to being over, and we can actually have a REAL relationship..What do you do? Has anyone been through this..And although not all that valued as far as opinions of strangers were to go..What would you do, or what did you do? Did it work out? Did you stop? Were you fired? Has anyone actually been fired over a work place relationship?