The Official TFW Heartbreak Hotel/Forever Alone/Relationship Advice Thread

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Nachtsider, May 9, 2012.

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  1. Nachtsider

    Nachtsider Banned

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    About time TFW got itself one of these, I reckoned - might as well have people air their woes and seek advice in a single thread rather than start multiples. I'll be nice for once and state that this discussion should be kept free of trolling, judgemental attitudes and explicit content. Fire away. :) 
     
  2. Surge

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    There was one point in high school where I became good friends with a hardcore anime fan. I wanted to ask her out but was way too nervous and never got around to doing so. After graduation, I've become better at talking to girls but, for the time being, I just choose to remain single.
     
  3. Ephland

    Ephland Let's Go Rangers

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    Should I quote the "advice" you were giving in another thread? You know, the posts where you have nothing but a judgemental attitude expressed with explicit content?
     
  4. seali_me

    seali_me Well-Known Member

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    No place for peeps who have onegina disease?
     
  5. FanimusMaximus

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    Am I the only one that think it's ironic that this thread was made by Happily Married Man?

    Anyways, yes I am forever alone. Haven't had a GF my whole life.
     
  6. JazzHunter83

    JazzHunter83 Mrs FatalT

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    I am currently single - hmmmmm about 10 months now (I could count, but who cares, honestly).

    I hated it at first, then grew to like it and am starting to hate it again. Mostly because i'm a bit lonely :) 

    Does being 29 mean I am past it? I mean....with my body parts going south and it being all the rage to date a girl who still wears nappies I think I may have to lower my standards.....which, I can't in all good conscience do......*sigh*.

    All I can say is....with women reaching their sexual peak in their 30's I think I need to get my game on before I miss that (incredibly fun sounding) boat completely.....I hate being 'old' :( 

    What options does a girl have? Who doesn't like hitting bars and clubs? I have no resources to tap at work (either not interested at all - with either one or both of us, they are female or they are already married) and I don't have any hobbies except for my zumba class - which is full of females. I do go to university, but am doing a female dominated course *sigh*. Forgot, I also do yoga, but again all females except a few men (yeah, men) but they are all not 'available' for various reasons.

    Dating sites? Yay? Nay?
     
  7. Mister Gone

    Mister Gone Macro-Con

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    I fear this thread will go south very quickly, but good luck all :) 
     
  8. Aernaroth

    Aernaroth <b><font color=blue>I voted for Super_Megatron and Veteran

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    I am here. I am waiting. I am watching. Be aware.
     
  9. Cryosis

    Cryosis Prowler in the yard

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    I've recently started a relationship.
     
  10. Cavshock

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    What do you mean by lowering your standards? Do you mean becoming easier or dating less attractive men or dressing differently?
    I wouldn't worry about it too much, you seem to be an attractive lady (If that is you in your avatar), some guy will come along and make you forget all about your missed ten months or so.
    Oh, what the heck is nappies?

    Chuck
     
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    I think she means that most men would be more interested in dating a younger girl. Nappies = diapers.
     
  12. Matty

    Matty @StayingInTheBox Moderator News Staff

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    Let's hope this is actually kept civil with only a few jokes. Good thread none the less.

    I've found that relationships/love hits you when you least want it to. I never enjoyed going to the bars/clubs to find women. My advice would be to continue doing what you enjoy for social outings, but don't be afraid to try new things such as dating sights or the bar scene with friends for a change. Don't have the mindset of lowering standards, that's unnecessary.
     
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    About that anime nerd I had the hots for: I actually sorta...cut off all ties with her. When I look back on it, it was a dick move and I still feel bad about it. But man...you get her talking about anime and it's the only thing she talks about. If I were to change the subject to something else (no, no, not Transformers), she'd immediately cut me off and jump back onto anime. I just didn't want to hear about that stuff the whole entire time because the only anime I actually enjoy is Bleach. When she got talking about other anime series, it was all alien mumbo-jumbo to my ears. :lol 
     
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    I think the OP is looking for some more threads about dudes dating transvestites with coke problems.
     
  15. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart.

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    help! im 28, single, and lonely! should i go to the clubs and try to get a one night stand? or easier to just get a hooker?
     
  16. Surge

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    :lol 
     
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    Somehow, I don't think this thread will end well.
     
  18. ILoveDinobot

    ILoveDinobot Not today Galvatron!

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    loling forever at this thread topic. :lolol 
     
  19. TrueNomadSkies

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    Well, we "could" always try & keep this on the level of being acceptable & hope that people who cause trouble (aka, the ones who repeatedly post animated gifs of Chris Brown as the entirety of their posts to actually spam the thread & who give advice along the lines of "each time she cheated on you earns her one chloroform point for when you're looking for a good time") end up being dealt with instead of those around em. There's always that....
     
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    I am Forever alone, never had GF, and i wanna remain single forever
     
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