The loss of a father

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  1. eTalking

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    My father passed today.
    11:55am.
    In Memoriam « Master Blasters with D & K

    After almost a year (5 days away) of fighting liver cancer with a smiling face and a never say die attitude, he passed peacefully in his sleep.
    It hasn't hit me yet.
    I was there. I watched him go, and yet i haven't shed a tear.
    I think knowing that he's at peace has brought more happiness and relief, and sort of eased the pain and grief that i thought i would be feeling.

    Anyway. Dad, I love you. You fought a hard battle, and everyone who knows you loves you dearly. You will never be forgotten.

    Love, your son
    Kurt
     
  2. chrisr291

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    Sorry for your loss. Losing my father was extremely difficult for me and I wish you the best. I know the pain is unbearable at times but just remember all the good times you had together.

    It doesn't bring him back, but it will put a smile on your face:2c: 
     
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    Deepest condolences. :( 
     
  4. Hiraga

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    Very sorry to hear this.
     
  5. SPLIT LIP

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    I'm so sorry. :( 
     
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    I wish you the best of luck in this most unfortunate of times.
     
  7. 03Mach1

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    My dad died in August and I know the feeling. Remember the good times and honor him by being the best person you can be. May your dad rest in peace and I wish you and your family the best.
     
  8. Doug

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    Sorry for your lost. My dad passed away two months ago and everyday it still bothers me.
     
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    My condolences to you and your family.

    It's normal when a family member dies after a long illness to feel relief. Their pain is gone, and your stress is gone. It's okay to feel that, and it doesn't mean you don't miss them or are 'happy they're gone'.

    --Moony
     
  10. grimlock1972

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    you have my most heart felt condolences, and while i too have lost my father we were estranged and the loss was not great to me , so i cannot pretend to know the pain you feel.
     
  11. Mr. Sinister

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    Go with God, my friend. I will pray for you.
     
  12. jorod74

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    i lost my mother suddenly back in August. i worked on her personally until medics got to her, but by then, she was gone. it's a terrible feeling to watch someone slip away. it's a curse i don't wish upon anyone.


    from the bottom of my heart, you are in my thoughts. you have my deepest sympathies. god, i hope you find peace.

    i am so sorry for your loss.
     
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    My condolences, may you treasure the fond memories you guys had together
     
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    my wife lost both parents within months due to cancer. this ones for you buddy.

     
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    Wow man , sorry for your loss . I lost my dad back in 92 on thanksgiving day of a heart attack. I was the same way, i didnt cry at all for a few days but once it all set it i cried my eyes out. Is one of the hardest things to deal with is the loss of a loved one.
     
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    I am so sorry for your loss. :(  Many hugs to you and yours.
     
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    I give you my condolences. :( 
     
  18. eTalking

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    thanks, everyone.
    your thoughts and wishes mean a lot to me.
     
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    Sorry for your loss.
     
  20. wildfly

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    My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
     

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