and a matter of morality/ legality got a question people. say a man is dying and some short while before his death he speaks with the local mortician on the matter of final funeral arangements and the matter of the dying man's last request. now when it comes to the dying mans request which he has paid the mortician in advance for his services on the matter of the last request it is for the mortician to perform at the dying man's request an act of corrective reconstructive surgery on the dying man's body with the mortican personally overseeing and performing the operation in the post mortem state as he inters the lifeless body and makes it ready for the grave. now so long as the dying man consults a lawyer in advance on the matter when it comes to the matter of a legal binding business contract and a living will and so long as the dying man makes clear through the contract and the living will that he has given the mortician his consent on the matter of the last request and that he was of sound and rational mind at the time he made his decision with the mortician on the matter of the last request, my question is this people when it comes to the legal viewpoint on the matter would the mortician be seen as being the mortician who is making an honest effort on his part to forefill the dying mans last request on the matter or would he simply be seen and treated by the justice system as being a guilty man who has commited the criminal act of desicrating a corpse. basicly people what measures must the dying man take in advance to insure that his surviving relatives will prove unsuccesful in their attempt to either delay the mortician from forfilling the dying mans last request and also to insure that said surviving relatives will prove unsuccessful in their attempt to obscure the facts of the matter in court when it comes to said relative making an attempt to make undue trouble for the mortician should for some reason or another this or that relative get the idea into their head to involve theirself in personal business that does not concern them what must the dying man do in life to insure that his entire surviving family well and truly minds their own business? as for what this has to do with myself. lets just say that it involves my making my own decision on the matter of circumcision despite my parents best personal efforts to otherwise rob me of the ability to make such a decision in life for myself. if only in physical appearance alone i can and i will make my own decision on the matter. it is not so much a desire on my part to regain that which my parents robbed me of as it is a desire on my part to decide the matter for myself merely for the sake of making my own decision on the matter. right now i am neither depressed or suicidal. if anything i see this as my only way to decide the matter for myself when i eventually die at some later point in the future. in short i see this as my way of spurning my parents and their families on the matter when it comes to the whole idea of one taking some slight acceptable measure of petty vengeance on ones relatives . sometimes, just sometimes i can be a real spiteful bastard when i feel it is justified.