The Chase...I Don't Get It

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  1. LXL_Guy

    LXL_Guy Well-Known Member

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    To make this a short and simple story, female friend of mine that I've been friends with for some time told me to chase her.

    I mean we went out on one date after she got back from overseas. She's been hot and cold with me since then. Honestly I do have interest in dating her but I don't understand this whole chasing her.

    How exactly does a guy chase after a woman?!
     
  2. ILoveDinobot

    ILoveDinobot Arise Rodimus Prime

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    :lol  She actually told you to chase her? Wow.

    I assume that girls like to feel special or needed, maybe they have low self-esteem and it feels to be wanted. I never really had any interest in playing dating games so I'm not really sure why other girls feel the need to be chased.

    I mean I love to be endowed with compliments and receive gifts but being chased? I think that would be annoying.
     
  3. Brainchild

    Brainchild Dark Flame Master

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    She literally just asked you for attention. ABORT MISSION
     
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    Isn't it obvious? You have to run after her, just make sure she screams: "no! somebody help!" while she's running. :lolol 

    If you want a serious answer, she wants to see how devoted you are. She wants to know if you are willing to go the distance to stay with her. By chase, she means to pursuit her. Simple thing is, pay attention, if she tries keeping distance, you gotta close the gap.
     
  5. grimlock1972

    grimlock1972 "No Mas" My Wallet

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    exactly this. She is testing you to see just how much you feel and care for her.
     
  6. Toxicon

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    Stick it in her pooper.

    There, now we don't have to dance around it.
     
  7. exclusacon

    exclusacon Expert with the Scopes!

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    Say, I'm a grown man I don't chase sh*t but money, you can ride with me or get out of my way...

    Basically she wants you, but she doesn't think its right for a woman to chase a guy.
     
  8. Razorclaw

    Razorclaw Are ya gonna draw pistols

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    Oh god, it's been a while since that reply circulated these boards, I forgot whose signature reply it was.
     
  9. firehawc_69

    firehawc_69 cloppers = ignore list

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    Sledge.


    I'd literally chase her and then hump her leg...at first...
     
  10. Red Alert

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    Run away from her.


    Odds are she has crazy eyes or wants you to support her by giving gifts.

    P.S.

    Stalk her
     
  11. KnightHawkke

    KnightHawkke A Man, Who Does Not Exist. TFW2005 Supporter

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    when I first saw this I thought it was about the show that got canned..

    but I guess the whole testing your devotion thing is probably about it.

    I would say proceed with caution.
     
  12. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart.

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    i thought this was about the charlie sheen movie.
     
  13. process

    process Hanlon's razor Veteran TFW2005 Supporter

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    Sounds like a job for Insanity Wolf.
     
  14. DavidLoPan

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    Pics or you don't have any female friends.
     
  15. Leadfoot

    Leadfoot The Strongest.

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    Sounds like she's into playing games. Best thing a man can do for himself is let it be known right up front that such games are for adolescents and that he is beyond all that. Confidence, directness, no bullshit. If that doesn't turn her on, buy her some tiddly winks and tell her to grow the fuck up and give you a call when she does.
     
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    With duct tape and lots of rope.
     
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    Thundercracker Contemptuous

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    Lose her phone number and avoid contact. She'll be the one doing the chasing if she actually has any real feelings for you.
     
  18. firehawc_69

    firehawc_69 cloppers = ignore list

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    To the tune of Yakety Sax.
     
  19. Aernaroth

    Aernaroth <b><font color=blue>I voted for Super_Megatron and Veteran

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    Play aloof until she's absolutely nuts for you or you find a better, more mature girl.

    comedy option: re-enact all the crazy romantic gesture scenes from popular movies for her.
     
  20. General Magnus

    General Magnus Da Custodes of the Emprah

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    I met him on another board, the James Rahndi Foundation. He´s well.
     

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