She's the loser. Move on dude.

 

QFT. Move on, it's the best thing for you.

 

thanks squirrelcar you cheered me up alittle with you funny comments. hell knows i needed to smile considering the crap im going threw right now.

i never dated a transexual before the woman im with now. shes the only one ive ever dated before.
she means so much to me yet i obviously dont mean much to her anymore....

 

Gee, and I thought the betrayal I just got was bad.

You know, you're not letting anything bad happen to her. She's doing it herself. She's got the right to do whatever, and so do you. Not a religious person, but there's such a thing called 'free will' for either party here.

You say you can't seem to save anything? Start with yourself first.

Get out, punch some bags, something to clear your mind, then approach the situation again dude. If you're still rambling desperately, repeat process till you calm down.

 

See their she's the one who has to do something about this, once you find her/him confront her/him and tell her/him whats wrong and that you want to work it out and go from their.

 

A psychiatrist and medication is the only answer here. No offense, but you sound like you have some behavioral disorders. You're always externalizing the causes for your problems... not to mention compulsively talking about how much you love her, how "your souls are intertwined", etc...

With an obsessive-compulsive nature, you're never going to let go and move on, unless you get some help.

 

Greatest pity thread EVAR.

Do yourself a favor and actually do what everybody in here is telling you, the wo/man is using you like a doormat.

 

God has nothing to do with it.

You're at this point because of both yours and her(his?) personal decisions and choices. When she/he cheated the first time, you took her/him back. You knew what kind of person she/he was at that point, and as time went on, she's/he's done more things you either disapprove of or just simply disgust you, yet still you've taken her/him back. Every time you take her/him back, you reafirm that it's OK for her/him to act a certain way, so of course there's no reason for her/him to change.


 

 

you just posted to see how many him/hers you could include. lol You are totally right though.

 

Do you have any pics of her...never really seen a hot tranny before...

 

e-highfive! QFTMFT!

 

  Dude C'mon. Not cool, but very intriguing, I would not mind to see who were talking about.

 

Guys, lay off the guy. Some people have an incredibly hard time doing the things you're all suggesting, not everyone can kick a loved one to the side no matter if its for the best or not.


I can understand how hard this must be for you man, but you shouldn't be saying God f**cked up your life, it looks to me as he's giving you an out.

Shes destroying you mentally man, you may love her but maybe the best thing for BOTH of you is to let her go, if you love her then let her be the way she wants to be, its as simple, and also as hard, as just that.


good luck man, I know you'll make the right decision for both of you.

 

One word:

THERAPY.

Granting you the benefit of the doubt that this is a true situation, get therapy. If it's a big fake out? Get therapy anyway.

 

Why is that not cool? I'd like to see a pic too, as I have also never seen a hot transsexual.

 

Dude, your not really looking for help at all are you? Whether you stay or go, something bad is going to happen to her/him/it (whatever). Why? Because this has nothing to do with you at all. These are her problems and you can't fix them. There are only two options:leave, or stay and let herm drag you down with her.

 

Sadly, I've seen lots of tranny pics in my "line of work", and you can always tell.
It reminds me of a funny anecdote at work…
My boss comes to my office and gives me some dvd covers to scan. One of them was a tranny film and didn't belong in that movie section. So I tell him "That's a tranny." He says "no". Then we look at the back cover and what do you know, the cover girl was a "cover boy".

 

Quoted for truth.

 

Damn this thread moves fast.

So, how exactly are things going in Rapture? Would you kindly let us know?

 

From what I've seen around these parts, this is not unusual.