Thanks for F**king my life up god!

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  1. Ghost Prime

    Ghost Prime Banned

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    ok as afew of you may remember acouple of days ago i was trying to find out my girlfriends password to an adult website she goes on.

    well basically after 2 years my girlfriend now turns to me and says she wants an open-relationship............ i feel devastated and really crushed.
    about a year ago she cheated on me because basically i wasnt pulling my weight and we were in serious need of money. she basically sold herself but came clean to me and stopped it and i got off my ass and tried to fix things.

    a year later and my girlfriend has had major surgery (SRS) and shes finally starting to get 100% better now.

    Recently she broke up with her girlfriend (she had a girlfriend i knew about and was friends with) and forced her out of the relationship.........again i felt pretty upset.

    well afew days later she cheated on me with this older couple. the guy isnt even attractive! hes a dickhead with a Pony Tail and hes into drugs (coke) and his girlfriend is a skank transexual who isnt even convincing! she calls them mummy and daddy...........it makes me sick.

    ive tried my best to save this relationship but it almost seems like she just doesnt give a shit. she was nice as pie to me about 2 days ago but then she started acting a bitch again and last night she was real cold towards me. She told me she was going to her dads today to stay but when i got home i noticed her kinky shoes were missing (school girl shoes i got her) and her fav corset i got her was missing as well (again i got her this) i notice when things have been moved around and or are missing so it was the first thing i noticed missing when i went into the bedroom.

    now i KNOW shes with those bastards again and im not even sure if she even IS staying at her dads tonight or not. i cant stand feeling like this.......
    we were ment to be working things out but it just feels like she just doesnt care about me or us anymore.

    im so confused about what to do. i dont want to have to go back to my family home because i feel like a failure and ive also a job here! ive worked so hard to get this job and i cant find a place here, especially one that acepts dogs as well.

    im just so messed up on what i should do.....
     
  2. FreshDebesh

    FreshDebesh <b><font color=brickred>oye chak de phatte!</font> Veteran

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    Ditch the bitch and keep working your job. Something better will come along. She seems like she has alot of issues to deal with. The best you can do is have her see a psychiatrist.
     
  3. smangerbot

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    erm, why are you with this girl? sorry to be blunt, but man....
     
  4. pscoop

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    I'm sorry dude, that is a lot to take. My best advice, and I know it won't be easy, is MOVE ON. No one deserves to be in your situation. Get out NOW.
     
  5. MegaPrime33

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    I'm honestly shocked you spent not just months, but years with this person. Seriously, dump her ass and move on.
     
  6. Gears

    Gears buh-buh-body ya Veteran

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    Dude you need to cut off ALL contact with this girl permanently.
     
  7. silentdarth

    silentdarth Josie's Daddy

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    Take it from someone who has been in a similar situation. The relationship is over. I'm sorry man, but it's a fact. She doesn't care about you anymore and will only use you for what she can get. IF she even comes back to you at all. Save yourself some more heartache and pack her stuff up, leave it outside and change the locks.
     
  8. Grimlock_13

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    Sorry to hear about that man...and it's WAY harder than it sounds, but seriously just move on. You'll still be upset for awhile but you'll get over it. Anyone deserves better than that.
     
  9. Ghost Prime

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    well this is were i show im a chump - i still love her.........even after shes betrayed me.........i sound real pathetic but the fact is she means the world to me.

    im also kinda screwed because i live with her in york (originally im from manchester) so if i did leave her im looking at 300GBP loss of having to hire a removal van........also i feel if i left her that she would end up in serious trouble.

    when i met her she was so amazing, shes smart+funny and the longest relationship ive ever had before. she means the world to me and i love her so much. shes the only girl to ever satisfy me sexually but also whos shown me love in the past.

    we rent a house in both our names but the garenture is in her dads name (basically he pays if we dont) and even tho my boss said he would help its still a hopeless battle because i cant afford the BOND money (money you give in advance for the property) + the rent payment + the council tax. it would be impossible to do it.........

    i love her but shes mesing me up really badly and i dunno if i can even save what we have anymore. i just wish i could turn back the time to afew months ago and had a chance to stop this before it even came into her head
     
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    Sorry to be blunt, but how could you expect this not to happen...you already know what she is like, how is this a big supprise?

    Sorry to hear about your problems, but you had to see this coming.
     
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    I know that you want to help her, but she needs to want to help herself out of this, too. If she's not putting the effort in, all the help you give her won't matter at all, and she'll just end up bringing you down.

    Real sorry about how this is working out for you.
     
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    It sucks, no matter the circumstances, but (to steal a cliche') it is for the best. She is who she is, and if you were right for each other, this wouldn't have happened. Take time to lick your wounds and try again.

    And, not that I care beyond the technical points, but I think the blame lies on your girlfriend, not God.
     
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    I can't believe you're serious. She whored herself out for money, she swings with druggie trannies, she cheats constantly, had a girlfriend on the side, just NOW asks for an open relationship...and you want to stay together? And then you blame God for it?

    Are you sure you're not kidding? It's hard to take seriously. I'm not really sure what you expect anyone to say other than DUMP HER, MOVE ON.
     
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    Dude.. that seriously sounds like Jerry Springer material.. no offense..
     
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    Your thread title made me question that type of person you are, and your rant about a situation that you have complete control over made me like you even less.

    Think I'm harsh? Too bad. Get your shit together. Move on, and stop blaming a deity for the mistakes you make.
     
  16. Gnaw

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    See, that's where she has you. The reason she fucks around and does whatever, is because she knows you won't leave her. You're her fallback. Ditch her. Tell her to go live with Mr. Pony tail.
     
  17. Ghost Prime

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    i know it doesnt make much sense. it doesnt even make sense to me.........the idea of that bastard touching her right now sickens me.......it sickens me even more if shes actually staying over there tonight and even lied about seeing her actual father.

    i feel sick to my stomach but the fact is i do love her and thats why i hate god. its like hes binded my heart and soul to hers and even tho shes causing me so much pain and anguise i still love her and would forgive her if she said she was sorry and wanted it all to stop.

    i doubt that will happen...........the idea of me leaving tho and her having people to the house makes me even more angry tho because this is OUR home we got for OUR future...............now it just feels like God is playing a sick fucking joke on me. all ive ever wanted is someone to make me happy sexually and who makes me feel loved and cared for. i felt like i finally found my soul mate only for everything to fall apart like whats happening now.

    I asked God for help! i even got on my knee's and begged to God to help us and save our relationship but it obvious he wasnt either listening or cares. either that or i must have done something awful in my past life so that im suffering for it now
     
  18. General Magnus

    General Magnus Da Custodes of the Emprah

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    dude you show grow a pair of balls and dump her. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but dude...come on, by what you said of her, she┬┤s worthless..
     
  19. Vangelus

    Vangelus Long Live the New Flesh Moderator Content Contributor

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    One of the most unfortunate and unfair facts of the world is that lots of love doesn't last forever. You seem to be really heartfelt, and for your sake I hope you can get away from her and find someone who's equally so.
     
  20. funkatron101

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    This thread should be locked due to the sheer stupidity of the situation, the people involved, and the fact that it is somewhat religious based.
     
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