So I have knocked up my gf of 5 years. I use the term in jest, it isn't like I am freaked out about it and thinkign about leaving or anything. Anyways, from askign around at work tryign to get a general consensus on how raising a child is, I have had many different answers. Is it still possible to buy things I want as long as I am taking care of the kid and all other expenses? Or is this some outlandish idea that I could indeed have money for both? Just trying to get some feedback on the whole situation I am in store for.