And shes not doing so well. She had her conditional acceptance to the grad program of her school revoked, her application deferred a whole year, is failing like 3 classes, lost 10 pounds, isn't sleeping, has some sort of sinus infection and seems like a total mess. Shes still seeing that douchebag...but man this is a real shock to me. She was doing well when we broke up, its seems so out of no where. In the two years that we were together she had her moments but I was always there to help her through them and she seems so lost and hopeless right now. And I'm not really sure what to do, the girl was seriously my best friend for the past two years but when the whole thing happened with her dumping me for Oi! Bluto, I wrote her off because it was such a slap in the face. So we talked last night and I tried to cheer her up, she was crying her eyes out, but I turned it around, had her smiling and laughing. I don't think we'll get back together but I do think after our hour conversation that she realized we were real good together and we are the most comfortable around one another. She realizes what she lost. But she needs some serious help and I'm not going to turn her away. I suppose I can help her more now as a friend than as a boyfriend.