OK my Family & I have been invited to dinner over someones house, this isn't the first time but everytime we go, WE DO NOT EAT. This woman is now getting offended because she notices we do this. We have had all kinds of excuses as to why and running out now because she has taken notice. The issue is she is the type who never washes her hands including after taking a shit. Yes I said it. But you go to the house and it's spotless. Go figure. So because of Hygiene we always say we just ate. That doesn't fly too well especially when we were invited to eat. So now Im lost as to what to do and asking your opinions. She is older and refuses to change her ways. Not a relative of mine Thank God. So please give me some suggestions. Thanks in advance. The Key is, Im not trying to be ignorant or rude.