Ok here is the deal. due to my dads illness my wife and I are moving from the wester slope of colorado to Amarillo TX. this is going to be a big difference not only in scenery but my income is going to be Massively affected. so with the new movie toys coming out my wife and i decided that the money to come in from me selling tf toys is just not a part of our Budget and for her it does not excist since money will be so tight. but then she purchased some things that we didnt really need ( or at least need to spend that much on) for our new place. and i had a doctor bill come up. She asked me to pay for half of the doctor bill ($25) and said she would give me $40 dollars for movie Megatron and I would not have to pay for him out of my transformers fund since she had overspent. does this all seem fair? how would you work things out to get what you want on a tight new budget? edit:i think i was misunderstood. I dont have a problem with giving money to the doctor bill or that she spent extra, i was asking, was it fair for her to give me 40 extra that i didnt earn or what not. im wanting to be fair to her.