so. i was married for more than 5 years before we had our 1st kid last year. that was on purpose cuz me and wifey was focused on our career. in other words, WE ARE USUALLY VERY CAREFUL. today, we just found out shes 7 weeks preggers, couple'a mah boys musta slipped thru the defenses, stupid force field generators. i am totally flummoxed, not to mention that the sexual-gratification-domestic-facilitator-unit is PISSED. i might consider the poopscoop route. hmm.