Ok I need some advice on what to do about the following: so about a month ago one of my best friends (I have know him since we were in the 7th grade) got me an Xbox 360 and a game as a gift with some money he came in to as a result of PTSD from being in Iraq. Now he and his wife are having a messy divorce and she is pissed that I kept the 360 cause she says that money could have gone to their two young kids. The other reason she is so pissed is she sees my keeping of the 360 as a huge betrael of our friendship (she is also my cousin and we have been close friends since 2000). She keeps saying I should never have exepted such a extravgant gift and that this is causeing her kids to potentaly go with out, witch I know that it is not. Just today I offered to pay her the amout of money that it would have cost me to go out and buy it my self and she said no and that I don't care about my nephew and niece. I asked the guy who got it for me "what would you have spent the money on if you had not gotten this for me?" and he said "New tats" so it's not like his wife or kids would have seen one red cent of that money. I guess I just want to know am I an ass for keeping it?