Not a good weekend, or Monday

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  1. Motor_Master

    Motor_Master Lets the balls touch TFW2005 Supporter

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    As some of you are aware KnightSaberAmi (KSA) and I have been dating for quite some time now. She's the blessing my life has needed! About a week and half ago we found out she was pregnant. While it was a surprise for both of us, we were both happy and were looking forward to becoming parents.

    Unfortunately the story doesn't have a happy ending. Starting Late Thursday KSA knew something didn't feel right and went to the emergency room, where she learned that the pregnancy was in danger and she only had a 50/50 chance of caring it to term. By Saturday morning the pain had not gotten any better and back to the emergency room she went. After about 11 hours in the emergency room the doctor confirmed what she suspected, she had a miscarriage.

    I just got off the phone with KSA a few minutes ago and she's going in for surgery tonight. I know it's a routine procedure and all, but surgery is surgery, especially when anesthesia is involved. Her attitude has been amazing, after the initial shock, she was so happy about becoming a mom and now she wont be, for the time being. Mentally she's ready to move on and hopefully after the surgery, her body will be as well. She's already talking about going to Hooters for hot wings after she's released and knowing her she will to.

    Needless to say the last several days have been a crazy roller coaster ride for both of us (her especially). I know she'll pull though the surgery, but I still worry.

    I'm not a drinker or a smoker, but I am on my third cookie... which for a guy on a low carb diet is the confectionery equivalent of crack!

    Please keep KSA in your thoughts and prayers,

    Thanks,

    MM
     
  2. Joe Moore

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    Damn man. I'm really sorry to hear about it. Please keep us updated and let us know how everything goes. We'll all be pulling for her to come through with flying colors.
     
  3. Xplosion

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    aw man im so sorry you lost the baby, i just had a friend have a miscarriage and that really sucks dude but hopefully what doesnt break you will make you stronger and you can move on from this to better things mna you guys will be in my prayers. bye
     
  4. Motor_Master

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    Thanks guys,

    I forgot to mention that while KSA was in the emergency room on Saturday, that the woman next to her also had a miscariage, sadly she was 5-months pregnant.

    If it had to happen, Im glad it happened now. We had just barley learned she was pregnant and there wasn't much time for either of us to start bonding with it... I couldn't imagine what it would be like if (like the woman in the emergency room) this had happened at 5-months.
     
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    Last year (March) my sister-in-law lost a baby boy three weeks before his due date. She still had to go through with a 12 hour labor and delivery.

    She's still trying to cope with what happened.

    It's such a horrible experience and one I wouldn't wish on anybody. The funeral was especially difficult.

    I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you and trust KSA will be fine.
     
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    Sorry to hear that. She will have lots of prayers and will be okay. And things will work out when the time is right.
     
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    Sorry to hear that man. :(  Hope the surgery goes well. Keep us posted.
     
  8. SPLIT LIP

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    That's horrible news.

    My best wishes to both of you.
     
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    I hope every thing goes well.
     
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    omg that is so sad and scary :cry  I hope KSA is ok, I am glad to here she has a good outlook on it! If all she is asking for is hot wings at Hooters you better take her out for some!
     
  11. Motor_Master

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    That's the worst part about all of this, she's in Virginia and Im in New Hampshire... talk about feeling helpless!
     
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    I'm so sorry to hear that :(  My best wishes to you and KSA. I hope everything turns out alright.
     
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    :(  I don't really have words to describe how much that sucks.
     
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    Damn, man. My heart goes out to the both of you. I'll be praying for you guys.
     
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    Sorry to hear that.
     
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    that's truly awful man, glad to hear that your missus it doing well.
     
  17. LoC Soundwave

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    Sorry to hear that :(  I'll be thinking of you both!
     
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    Awwwwwww man. Best wishes to you both - I'll keep you guys in my thoughts.
     
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    Buddy, you'll both be in my thoughts! Best of luck to all of you.
     
  20. KidDynamite

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    That's terrible news. My prayers are with you both.
     

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