need advice on girl problem,

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  1. Bumble Prime

    Bumble Prime all the time

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    so i figured id get a consensus from you guys......

    beer pong night this week ended in a girl staying the night ( im just as surprised as you lol)

    but turns out she is on the tail end of a divorce and about 4 years older than me (26).

    now im not trying to make this a reoccuring thing with her since it seems like shes got plenty on her plate. But we didnt even exchange numbers, and If i wanted to i could go through my friends and make contact again.

    but all in all shes a cool girl, and pretty level headed.

    So should I at least give a courtesy call so its not so one night standish, or just leave her alone?
     
  2. flamepanther

    flamepanther Interested, but not really

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    If she didn't give you her number or anything, I doubt she'll be hurt if you don't go out of your way to see her again. If you want to track her down, go ahead, but don't try to do it just as a courtesy.

    More importantly, what's this "beer pong night"? 'Cause if you guys all got drunk and played Atari games, that's really awesome.
     
  3. Bumble Prime

    Bumble Prime all the time

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    no actual beer pong, ya know two sets of cups filled with beer set up like bowling pins on opposite sides of a ping pong table. You throw or bounce a ping pong ball across the table, if it lands in a cup the other team has to drink the beer. You play till you clear one side and subsequently the team who lost drinks whatever is left on the table.

    The best part about it is you get to distract the other team while they try to make their shot. after about 3 games, that becomes abso freakin lutley hilarious.



    but as far as drunk video games go, we also have a "wii W I" ( Wii U I) night where we drink and play wii sports. Still fun but far less dancing and gyrating. And girls dont seem to like video games as much, oh well guess they are just wired different.
     
  4. FreshDebesh

    FreshDebesh <b><font color=brickred>oye chak de phatte!</font> Veteran

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    Leave it alone. If she didn't ask/give a number and neither did you, then no one "owes" anyone anything. Think of it as a good night and leave it at that.
     
  5. Prowl_Delta_31

    Prowl_Delta_31 Eating your donuts

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    My thoughts on the matter..................................If she is going through a divorce leave it alone. Theres an ex in the background somewhere and that could turn into a bad thing. I'v seen it happen many times.
     
  6. Wyvern

    Wyvern Velvet Sanchez

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    It is what it is....

    It was a one night stand. Just let it be.
     
  7. Jux

    Jux Please, call me Steve. Veteran

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    A local bar here hosts a Beer Pong tournament every Tuesday (Google it if you don't know what the game is). In my college town, it draws a crowd of a couple hundred, the place is packed, and always full of good looking women.

    I love the game, but can never find a reliable playing partner.
     
  8. Harbinger

    Harbinger ecnayonnA

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    well, other then i can only assume she stayed the night and nothing much else happened. atleast i dont expect it did. in any case. she left no number. means your under no obligation to to contact her. if you bump into her somewhere atleast say hi though.
     
  9. Predaking

    Predaking Well-Known Member

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    QFT
     
  10. Dark_Convoy

    Dark_Convoy Old Bastard Veteran

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    This is what you call a "one night stand" (that is if you guys indeed had sex) you are thinking about it far too much, you guys had fun and that's it, it's the way these things work.
     
  11. Sycia

    Sycia Draconian Faction

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    Going to agree with the guys on this one. Best leave it at that to avoid trouble for both your sakes.
     
  12. Foster

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    I did this once and couldn't remember her name the next day. Wound up running into her again and marrying her. Knew her name by then of course.
     
  13. llamatron

    llamatron Shut up, Nigel. TFW2005 Supporter

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    So you guys screwed right? What position? Any oral?
     
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    Instructions for successful one night stand:

    Step one: Hit it

    Step two: quit it.
     
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    Hmm the man brings up some important questions.

    Great advice. Seriously, if she gave you no way to contact her, you are best to leave it how it is. Like someone else pointed out, even though she and the ex are no longer together, he may still have some jealousy issue, especially if she left him.

    You got to bang a broken woman with no obligations. You won. Now move on.
     
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  17. smkspy

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    Sounds like you had a true one night stand so count yourself lucky.
     
  18. Bumble Prime

    Bumble Prime all the time

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    counting myself very lucky....

    oh and the intimate times? Out of sight my man lol (anchorman)
    lol why would i worry about talking to a girl who just crashed on my couch for the night?

    yeah i was leanin towards leavin it alone anyways. the only contact i was possibly pondering would just be another invite to beer pong night.

    But plenty of fish and the sea, and a comparable amount of college girls with questionable morals at my house on the weekends, so done and done.

    but she did stay for freakin ever the next morning, till like noon..... thats a loooong time to not fart in your own bed....:D 

    and another little funny fact, sun came up the next morning and you could actually see my room in full light and she was lookin around noticing the few transformers i had layin around (most of the collection is in the closet). I said " yeah sorry my room is a mess, i know" and she replied " and it also looks like a 5 yr old's". BURN, i kind of just wanted to say , and.......youre naked in my bed so guess it doesnt really matter what my room looks like :) 

    gracias
     
  19. Robogeek28

    Robogeek28 Who're you calling a geek?

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    Lucky bastard.:lol :thumb 
     
  20. Bumble Prime

    Bumble Prime all the time

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    and the plot thickens, she already found me on facebook........
     

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