Heya folks... just wanted to get an opinion on something. A few months ago, I got promoted within my company to manager, and had to go to a different store to do this. Since I've been at the new store, I found out that one of my employees (a cashier) had a crush on me, and just recently, we hit things off together and started going out. The problem is, that I'm technically her boss. We agreed to be as professional as possible while at work, and I've since found 3 occasions of managers co-mingling with their staff (two of the three situations are now married and the other has the two living together). Anyways... even though the two of us haven't been going out long, we're both feeling like we've known each other for a long time and feel really good with each other and just last night I told her I loved her... which really makes the work situation harder... I was told by a coworker the other day that any and all inter-staff hooking up is pretty frowned upon. So I was kind've looking around the store and no one is going out with anyone else.... anywhere in the store, except for the two of us. I really like my job and I worked hard to get it and I don't want to lose it over this, but I'm also not going to give her up either. Should I ask one of the other managers if I can do this as long as I'm professional about it while at work and don't play favourites, or try to hide it as long as possible? Simply put, I want my cake and to eat it to. Help me out here folks.