My Parents want to Divorce.

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  1. Christian Prime

    Christian Prime SF Ibuki & Makoto Fanboy!

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    After many years, my parents of decided to part ways.

    This is the second time they've tried. :( 

    And I believe this time round might be legit.

    I really don't know what to say really. :cry 

    I might believe its because of other family members (on my Dad's side) or something else.
     
  2. MTME

    MTME Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry
     
  3. GFH

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    Aww... I'm sorry. Stay strong, okay?
     
  4. opt1musaber

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    Life is full of adversities, I'm sure you will come through.
     
  5. Gordon_4

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    That's rough mate, but chin up, and make sure you talk it over with your mates and other trusted family members. You've gotta know this isn't something you can fix.
     
  6. a person

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    Sorry to hear that. My parents separated when I was 10. It will take some time, but you'll get through it.

    Best of luck.
     
  7. rattraprules98

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    Stay strong, man.
     
  8. SouthtownKid

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    It's possible you'll be better off than if you were living with them not divorced and everybody perpetually miserable. Just keep reminding yourself it's not about you, and that if you care about them and want them both to live happy lives, this may be better for everyone.
     
  9. Christian Prime

    Christian Prime SF Ibuki & Makoto Fanboy!

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    Thanks for the support, people. :( 

    I'm currently watching Summer Wars for the first time, and keeping things calm whilst posting new things on dA.

    I'll be strong while I still can.
     
  10. TrueNomadSkies

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    Look on the bright side. Doubles the homes = double the transformers??? :D 



    Seriously though, sometimes people just aren't meant to be together, and as shitty as it is, what SouthtownKid's saying makes a lot of sense to me. Just do what you can to be supportive, and ideally others will follow suit.
     
  11. Doug

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    I've heard of all couples getting marry today, half will end in divorce. I have a aunt and uncle who has been married for 42 years divorced several years ago.

    I believe weddings will be a thing in the past.
     
  12. TheIncredibleHulk

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    TWO CHRISTMASES!!!!!!

    But seriously, not your fault. It happens now adays
     
  13. thecollector

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    Sorry to hear that. My parents divorced over a year ago. Just stay strong and remember that you'll be able to be with both parents, just not at the same time. Also remember that you didn't cause this at all, and don't be upset with whoever may have caused it. I'd rather my parents be separated and happy than together and hearing them fight all the time.
     
  14. Aernaroth

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    The thing to remember is that, whatever happens, both your parents love you very much and this is not your fault. This is likely going to be a difficult time for everyone, but they're doing it because they hope it will be a better situation for everyone.

    Whether they get back together, or stay apart, they will still be your parents, you will still be their kid, and it will all work out in the end.
     
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    keep your chin up
     
  16. transformervic1

    transformervic1 HI!

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    pretty much, this.
     
  17. Christian Prime

    Christian Prime SF Ibuki & Makoto Fanboy!

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    I'll keep those in mind, people! :)  *plays pieces of music from Doctor Who Series 5 & 6*

    It is going to be difficult for a lot of people, but I'm keeping my cool for the meantime, despite the fact that today's being a rather hot, sunny day. =.=

    Aerna & thecollector - ^_^ I guess so at least.
     
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    That sucks dude. My parents divorced about 10 years ago now, so I know how you're feeling.
     
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    As long as you know that you had NOTHING to do with it and that this is an adult issue between two adults then you shuold be able to cope quicker.
     
  20. power3921

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    As my parents are in the process of divorce right now, I know how bad it feels, but when its all over, things do get better, at least for the parents, hopefully for you to.
     

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