My father has passed away.

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  1. Toxicon

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    Well, today has been a shitty day. I woke up and then had to rush to the hospital. My entire extended family was there, and we all said our final goodbyes to my father. It was extremely depressing; lots of crying.

    Background: my dad went into the hospital a month ago to detox. He was a drinker, you see. A month and a tracheostomy later, and here we are.

    My mother, brothers and I have been awake all night, waiting for news. Time of death: 11:50 pm.

    I'm still in shock. My dad, gone. Just like that.
     
  2. mrhillz

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    Damn, I'm sorry to hear that. :( 
     
  3. bumblebot98

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    Damn...I feel truly sorry for ya dude.
     
  4. Mr. Sparklebot

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    That's awful... my condolences to you and the family. :( 
     
  5. JetRaid

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    Damn man :(  feel for you at the moment man <3
     
  6. BigRC83

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    Sorry about your father.
     
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    Damn, Tox. I'm so sorry to hear that. I knew things were worsening, but I never thought it would happen like this.

    My condolences to you and your family. I'll keep them all in my prayers.

    If you need to get any thoughts out, talk to me.

    :( 
     
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    My condolences, sorry to hear that. :(  I'm sure I'm not alone when I say that you just expect parents to always be there. I hate it when mine talk about 'wills' and stuff, but it has to be done. :) 
     
  9. Beastbot X

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    Aw, man... so sorry to hear about that, Toxicon. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. :( 
     
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    Condolences to you and your family
     
  11. Omega Charge

    Omega Charge Prepare for trouble...

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    I'm sorry for your loss. :( 

    You and your family have my prayers. Hope you get through it ok.
     
  12. Chaos Muffin

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    Very sorry to hear :( 

    If you ever need a bro to talk to, PM me up anytime. We're all here for you. Hope you and the family's doing ok.
    Here's to your fathers new beginning, wherever it may be. I pray he's at peace.

    :(  :( 
     
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    So sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine loosing my father when I'm this young.
     
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    Thoughts and prayers, man.
    I hope there is something good to be found in this- like he's at peace or you find your strength to help your family.

    it isn't a good day, but i hope god gives you something for enduring it.
    my condolences to you and your family.'
     
  15. LoC Soundwave

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    Really sorry to hear that :(  You and your family have my condolences.
     
  16. grimlock1972

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    my heart felt condolences to you and your family at this time of loss, just remember your father is in a better place now
     
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    Wow, I'm so sorry to hear it, it sounds like he was turning some of his life around. :( 

    --Moony
     
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    Sorry to hear about that. My deepest sympathies. :( 
     
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    My condolences to you and your family...

    i know how you feel, though not in that situation. my father passed away on the 10/16 (two days before my brithday)...one day he was ok, the next he wasn't. I'm still in shock as to what happened.
     
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    I'm very sorry to hear that. :(  Best wishes to you and your family. :) 
     

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