I've been pondering about this for the past few days and thought I would pose the question to you guys seeing as there's a fairly broad range of experiences and situations here. So, which do you think is better: Marrying young (by young, I mean early 20's and under) or partying hard until you're 30 or so and then trying to secure a life mate? Too start us off here's a few points for each side: Marrying Young Some Pro's *If you want kids it's best for them to get cracking as early as possible. Marrying young gives you a few years to yourself and then you can get down to baby production. *You're not going to grow old and lonely. I guess there's a sense of security there. *If they're truly your super-duper lovely best friend for evah then why not? Some Con's *You're sort of sacrificing a lot of your life. Party Hard Some Pro's *Tits. Lots and lots of different tits. Or, Dicks. Lots and lots of different dicks. *Freedom. No commitments, no responsibilities, you can do whatever the hell you feel like. Some Con's *Missing the marriage train. If you wait too long it can be hard to get on board, or find someone without a butt load of baggage (kids, insane ex, huge debts, etc). Now that I've got the party started, debate and / or share your experiences.