Lost contact with a good friend

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  1. red4

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    They live way the hell on the other side of the US, I don't even know their last name. They won't respond to my texts. I don't know their email address, and they recently deleted their MySpace profile. My last option is to call, but they don't like verbalizing through the phone (they prefer texts. we used to text all the time).

    *sigh*:( 
     
  2. grimlock1972

    grimlock1972 "No Mas" My Wallet

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    that sux , not much else you can do save to call your friend
     
  3. red4

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    Yep. Gonna try that when I feel more comfortable about it.
     
  4. transformers32

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    Or you could might just take a hint?:) 
     
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    For someone who is supposed to be a good friend, how do you not know their last name?
     
  6. Chrono Grimlock

    Chrono Grimlock Perfect By Nature

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    My thoughts exactly.
     
  7. Gingerchris

    Gingerchris Telly-headed Tyrant

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    Call. Either you'll get the contact info you want or you'll find out the other person isn't interesting in staying in contact anymore and you can stop being bummed about it. If the person doesn't like verbalizing through the phone then they shouldn't have let the other contact methods lapse.
     
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    I third this.
     
  9. Emperor Mengde

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    Sorry to hear about this, but don't like verbalizing through the phone? What has our society become.
     
  10. Gingerchris

    Gingerchris Telly-headed Tyrant

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    We've become texty tappers and keyboard bumpers.
     
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    Golden.
     
  12. red4

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    I was waiting for someone to say this. But it's not like that.
     
  13. samtheman

    samtheman Well-Known Member

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    Facebook? Most people have one now days. You can search someones name and an area/highschool/random group and find the person you're looking for.
     
  14. red4

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    Already did that. They don't check their facebook either.
     
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    I guess leave a message with your info on it and stop persuing so avidly. Most people think it's strange.
     
  16. MikeTSI

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    Then tell us how it is. We need more info so we can understand the situation. Because right now, it sounds like thay're not interested in talking with you anymore.
     
  17. red4

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    They're kinda emo and regress when things don't pan out the way they hoped. So they're not hiding from me specifically. They're cutting off ways for people to contact them because they want to be left alone in general. You could say I should take that as a hint too, but I'm the only person who ever paid any attention to them - something they outwardly admitted to me.
     
  18. Sizzle

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    Um...pretty much means this girl is a dude.
     
  19. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart.

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    give up.
     
  20. Moonscream

    Moonscream YES, We EXIST!

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    There's only so much you can do being that far away from them. If its a cycle with them as you indicate, you may have no choice but to just wait until they want to talk to you. Could be quite a while.

    --Moony
     
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