Definitely agree with you. All I am saying is that it's hard to do that when your in that situation. Plus she may have golden pussy syndrome. I dated a girl for 5 months after I realized I hated her and wanted to do nothing with her. Golden pussy syndrome had a tight hold. No pun intended.
What's the treatment for it when it crumbles? As soon as I finished typing it, I felt the need to gag.
Well, if he is not getting any, then he needs to get the fuck out of there. The chick I hated didnt want to hold hands either. But she loved to bang. I think it was the constant fight bang, fight bang that made the sex so great. Plus I almost got hit by a car having sex with her, she was that type of freaky.
She loved to bang outdoors. I was away for like 4 days and when I got back we drove to the beach, and were banging on the beach at night. The cops were patrolling the beach in their car and didn't see us. Literally I was like, "that car is going to hit us" and she was like "wait,wait". I literally had to roll over with her on top at the last second. They literally missed us by like 5 feet if that. That is one of our more tame stories. Don't let me go into her Mafia father and how she banged me with her dad asleep on the other side of the long couch. Like I said, bitch was crazy, but still best sex I ever had to date.
The problem is that you can't continue to build and develop a relationship that is only founded on angry sex. The op's girlfriend may very well be someone who gets her sexual energy from fighting and angst, so is unable to be intimate at other times, but that doesn't mean it'll be worth it for the OP to stay. Angry 'just-had-a-big-fight-and-now-we'll-fuck-to-make-up-for-it sex is good every once in a while.....not good when it's all the time. It doesn't have to be a porn movie everytime, even cuddling on the couch with NO sex is a very important way to grow closer to the person that you love. So, I think that the OP should get out regardless....even if is he is getting sex. He's not getting intimacy, clearly and he deserves to feel loved on a level that transcends being 'fuckable'.
Dont want to get into details, But just giving an update. We ended up breaking up and im moving to washington state.
People make strange rules and even stranger exceptions to those rules. There's a pretty good chance that she only views you as a fiscal/material benefit and nothing else, which could explain why she prefers going out with her friends as opposed to you. Also, many single mothers (not all obviously) enjoy the luxury of another man when they're not actively with the father. It's sort of a safety net. I will warn you, though: as someone that was involved with a single mother for over 2 years, that relationship seldom feels like your own. You're dealing with a child that's not yours, you're also dealing with said child's father (another separate experience). Let me ask you this: Did it ever feel as if you were just "keeping the seat warm" for someone else?
Brilliant! Find someone who is deserving of your love, time and attention! Like I said before, I am here if you ever need to chat xxxx
Odd thing it she said she still wants to work on things. via internet and visiting me out there. Im so confused but for now its done i guess.
Don't fall for that shit. She's still trying to keep you on the hook. Does she have a paypal account? LOL Cut her ass loose and don't ever look back.
Gross. I guess she couldn't handle the reality of being a single parent and without the consistent male support. Keep moving and don't look back.
Yeah, of course she does - she still has bills she needs you to pay! She doesn't want to lose her gravy train completely. In fact she's possibly turning cart-wheels in her head at the idea of a financially generous internet boyfriend who isn't in her face all the time. You deserve better. Actions always speak louder than words.