Has anyone every had their former/current significant other ask this dreaded question? I actually just had this happen to me and my reply was simply....you have a decision to make don't you. I said no one should ever be asked to give up something they love so much. I said they are a part of me and we are a packaged deal. Sadly this has resulted in a break-up. I understand if it was an unhealthy obsession for example I spent all my money on purchasing Transformers and was not paying rent, bills, etc. I can't help but think am I right or wrong in saying what I said.