Is this situation a good sign

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  1. Ironhide29

    Ironhide29 Banned

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    So I messaged this girl at a online dating site like a month ago and she replied to me on Wednesday saying" Sorry for taking too long to respond as I haven't been online in a while" And I messaged her back. Thursday we chatted online like on this IM messenger the has, and we chatted for about a good hour until she had to go to bed and she gave me her number without me asking for it, she goes" John I have to go to bed, I am tired here's my number if you want to text or talk, goodnight :) ". And Yesterday morning I texted her Good morning Vanessa how are you? And she replied. I go to her if she wants to talk but she couldn't since she was with her mother shopping and running around but we still kept texting even though, I even told her to call me and she said I will once I get a chance since I am running around like crazy and have to go home and get ready for a supper dinner party. Now the thing is before she let me go she goes to me" I am off to dinner we'll speak soon, enjoy your evening. What does she mean? Will she contact me again?
     
  2. ILoveDinobot

    ILoveDinobot Not today Galvatron!

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  3. Grimlock22

    Grimlock22 Some sort of artist

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    Duh
     
  4. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart.

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    wait. if she wants your body, she'll respone back.
     
  5. TrueNomadSkies

    TrueNomadSkies Airachnid's ratservant

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    She probably just wants to play the field &/or test the waters with the OP via msn/text before opening up to anything orally, and all I can really suggest is that he does the same, at least for the time being.
     
  6. TheIncredibleHulk

    TheIncredibleHulk Find Gary Busey!

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    Uh...huh...huh... you said "orally"
     
  7. Aernaroth

    Aernaroth <b><font color=blue>I voted for Super_Megatron and Veteran

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    Jesus tapdancing Christ. If she wants to get in touch with you and talk again, she will. If she doesn't, she won't. It's a girl you've barely had contact with, and certainly not intimate, or even truly personal contact, why the hell are you stressing over it? This is literally one of the plenty of fish people keep talking about. It sounds like she's probably a little bit interested. Does she live in your city or is she some lonely random on the internet?

    More to the point, why the hell do you think they has any other ulterior motives besides "having a life outside of conversations online with you"? Did you give her reason to blow you off? Are you constantly messaging her on the site or otherwise? Did you act like a creeper?

    How in the hell is THIS the point where you start asking for advice?
     
  8. Ravenxl7

    Ravenxl7 W.A.F.F.L.E.O.

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    Quick, before it's too late.

    stick


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    I always wanted to be the first to say that in a thread like this...anyways, by the sounds of it things are going good, so just go with the flow. Like others have stated, if she want's to continue communicating with you, she will. She's already been talking with you, so really at this point, there's nothing to worry about. As Hitch would say, it's your job not to screw it up...:ev: 
     
  9. TFW10

    TFW10 Well-Known Member

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    Sounds promising.
     
  10. BooyakaDragon

    BooyakaDragon I Don't Even Know

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    Stick it in her pooper, thats the only solution left.
     
  11. Moonscream

    Moonscream YES, We EXIST!

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    You met her on a dating site and (assuming you're in the same area) you haven't asked her out yet? Lame!

    Also, why are you expecting her to call you? You have her number. Call her and ask her out on a date. You'll be taking the expressway to the Friend Zone real damn soon if you just keep chatting without dinner and a movie...in fact you may be part of the way there already.

    --Moony
     
  12. MTME

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    so you go on and on about how she keeps texting you back, IMing you back and everytghing and you really really ask is she going to call me back?

    really??
    how old are you out of curiousity I gotta know
     
  13. TrueNomadSkies

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    ... ridiculous.
     
  14. tfmad2010

    tfmad2010 Oh Hai Internet!

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    We really have became a relationship forum now, haven't we? :( 
     
  15. ILoveDinobot

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    It surely is a pathetic one.
     
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    FatalT 71 Mr. JazzHunter

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  17. Shockblaster

    Shockblaster likes Kate Upton

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    Just play it cool, wait for her reply. Let her make the next move.
     
  18. guard convoy

    guard convoy The Big Daddy

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    what has happened to GD these days, when did we become the transformers version of love boat?

    now if you excuse me, my five lovely ladies are waiting for some personal alone time


    (psst, that was a masturbation joke)
     
  19. Gingerchris

    Gingerchris Telly-headed Tyrant

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    Sounds like she's far too busy for dating anyone anyway if she's too busy to just talk to you on the phone. Vanish for a few days of no contact and see if she even notices you're not sending her messages while she goes about her busy life.
     
  20. Robogeek28

    Robogeek28 Who're you calling a geek?

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    Hold your breath until she calls, I promise you won't pass out.
     

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