Back on January 16th I bought this KO Soundwave, larger, has lights, makes sounds for 30 something. Paid for by paypal, through my credit card. A month goes by, and still nothing. So after numerous emails to the guy, trying to get this settled (he'd claimed it was shipped out on the 21st of Jan) He said give it until Wed the 14th of Feb, and if it wasn't in yet, he'd offer a refund. Wednesday came and went, and of course I hadn't heard from him--So more emails. He finally gets back to me, and offers to send another one, but wouldn't be able to do that until the END OF NEXT MONTH or he could refund me, but he couldn't do that until last weekend. I opt for the refund. He of course doesn't pay up over the weekend, but I do finally see in paypal that it shows a refund was made for the full amount. I log onto ebay tonight, now, only to see I have an alert on my account as he has now marked it off that I haven't paid for this item and that can have negative influence towards your account etc..WTF?! Is that right?! Can he really do that? Do I have grounds to leave negative feedback to him then? I did pay--He refunded it!