*Beware slight rant maybe.* So I have Two very adorable little boys that I absolutely love and cherish. Their mother on the other hand is something of a different matter. But the situation is this as it goes. She and I have done the make up to break thing constantly for the last eight years seriously but there has been some really long gaps in between them. We had children oldest just turned 3 and the youngest will be 2 year old on the sixth of this month. But we are currently working on a relationship and there is another guy, suitor, wooer whatever, she knows I'm not very fond of him yet she always has to update me on when they chat or things about his life that I care diddly about. She had a church picnic today and he was there (drove 80 miles) spending time with my children and doing things with them that I haven't even done yet like taking them down a slide and putting them on swings. The oldest has never done this he has always been to afraid to do so and the little one is way to young yet. These are supposed to be my milestones with my children not some other guys. But she doesn't understand why I'm so angry and upset and thinks its wrong for me to be. So I have to ask is it wrong for me to be upset that she has another guy that I'm not too fond of playing with my children and stealing my moments? Because if I knew she wasn't thrilled about a certain person there is no way in hell I would have them around my/her children.