In the words of Freddy Mercury...

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  1. CyclonuS_ZerO

    CyclonuS_ZerO Uni-con

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    ...Another one bites the dust. So this girl (whom I've known for years actually, but not closely) and I went out a week ago, dinner, movie, sex, and watched another movie afterwards. Good time right?...guess not good enough? We've still been in touch, but very little, and I don't see the same enthusiasm from her end. Am I missing something here?
     
  2. Mr. Sinister

    Mr. Sinister Cat + Sinister = TROUBLE

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    Some context maybe?
     
  3. CyclonuS_ZerO

    CyclonuS_ZerO Uni-con

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    What do you mean?
     
  4. transtrekkie

    transtrekkie On the level.

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    One night stand? Coworker? Classmate? We need details man!
     
  5. Aernaroth

    Aernaroth <b><font color=blue>I voted for Super_Megatron and Veteran

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    Maybe she didn't think the sex was that good?
     
  6. Galvatron Rage

    Galvatron Rage Question Authority

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    Bitches are a dime-a-dozen, bro. Find another!


    Hmmm, this might be true too.:D 
     
  7. LamboTwinLove

    LamboTwinLove Lambo Assassin

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    She could just feel a little uncomfortable now. Or it's possible she is keeping some distance to appear not clingy and what not. Us girls do get labeled clingy far too often.
     
  8. Dinodigger97

    Dinodigger97 germinates within you.

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    Yeah. Did you remember to stick it in the pooper? That could be the reason she's not talking to you that much.
     
  9. CyclonuS_ZerO

    CyclonuS_ZerO Uni-con

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    Who knows...doesn't really matter and to be honest I don't know what the hell kind of advice, or what I wanted to accomplish by posting this. All I do know is, that I may have said this many times before with previous relationships, but I'm too old for this shit, I'm through with this relationship crap. The fact that it didn't really go anywhere just makes it easier to get over.
     
  10. QmTablit

    QmTablit Disguise: Check. Robot...

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    Her watching another movie afterwards tends to have me lean towards this. She should have been asleep.
     
  11. BooyakaDragon

    BooyakaDragon I Don't Even Know

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    Stick it in her pooper......again :p 
     
  12. transtrekkie

    transtrekkie On the level.

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    Maybe you just needed to vent? There's certainly nothing wrong with that.

    At 37, I understand what you mean by told old for this shit.
     
  13. Wolfguard

    Wolfguard Your own personal Jesus.

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    The quicker the bang, the quicker the fizzle. Might not happen with everyone, but I find that when most relationships move too fast and loose with sex, they don't last very long. The challenge, the mystery, the importance - it all gets thrown out the window once the deed is done, and then what do you have left? And then there's the fact that girls view sex differently than men, but that's a whole nuther thread...
     
  14. Surge

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    Shouldn't someone just open a general romance advice thread? I don't mean to sound like a dick but that's all I've been seeing here lately.
     
  15. QmTablit

    QmTablit Disguise: Check. Robot...

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    I can't say I find that true at all. Most relationships I've known of began with the physical, and eventually as that continued the emotional bonds grew as the two got to know each other more, while also having sex.

    It's RARE in my experience that two people had an established friendship that became romantic. And most times, the girl tends to be afraid of that situation, because it risks losing a friend if that relationship ends.

    Sex can be a starting point for a relationship, and there's nothing wrong with that. A physical attraction is always important, and usually key in even pursuing the other to begin with. It's merely a facet of a relationship, but not this end-all-be-all you seem to make it out to be.

    And no, girls don't view sex differently than guys. They just aren't so compelled by it. Not at 25 anyway. 40 is another matter.
     
  16. Gingerchris

    Gingerchris Telly-headed Tyrant

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    People are weird. Sometimes impossible to fathom. It might be considered a revolutionary concept but you could just ask her if things are okay.
    Maybe you just need to touch her end more often. Might I suggest:
     
  17. Wolfguard

    Wolfguard Your own personal Jesus.

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    OK, I'll bite: How do they view it exactly like men do?

    :popcorn 
     
  18. Alucard77

    Alucard77 Kaon Gladiator Champion

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    Did you follow the golden rule? Lay the pipe like your Super Mario? This way when she thinks of sex, she only wants you? That's my rule with a first time doing it, forget about my pleasure and do whatever it takes to get her wanting more.

    Having said that, maybe if you really don't care, you can ask her, the same way your asking us. Literally say,"sorry if I sound like a freak or whatever, but I am not getting the same vibe from you. I kinda too old for this shit, so if you wanna tell me why you seem to have lost interest, then I am all ears, and no I won't get offended, if that is what worries you. If she says nothing is wrong and continues down the same path, just tell her, that she is not the person who you thought she was and that you want to end it."

    No reason to over complicate, just be honest and to the point. No one can play games with you if you don't part take in their games.
     
  19. TheDemonDzko

    TheDemonDzko °-{[●□●]}-° {Beep. Boop.)

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  20. Autovolt 127

    Autovolt 127 Get In The Titan, Prime!

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    and also Don't stop me now.
     
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