I think I really enjoy being single.

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  1. Dark_Convoy

    Dark_Convoy Old Bastard Veteran

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    It's strange, I've been so much happier since I split up with my wife.

    I spent two weeks in Louisiana more or less by myself and I had never been happier. I'm back in town now, spent the weekend with my sons, hung out with a few friends, talked to a couple others on the phone and or AIM, and I'm finding that I enjoy being a loner.

    I was talking to a female friend of mine on the phone the other night and she tells me "I really need to see your face." Thing is, I love her to death, but I just don't feel like seeing her, I don't feel like seeing anyone right now.

    I don't know if I'm turning into a crazy hermit or what, I just really am enjoying having so much time by myself.
     
  2. grimlock1972

    grimlock1972 "No Mas" My Wallet

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    id say your enjoying your time with out a woman, and not wanting to get back into a relationship right away after a divorce is perfectly normal
     
  3. jqciaomama

    jqciaomama LD Master

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    Yeah man. You're off the hook!
    Just be careful not to take the bait again. Go enjoy yourself. :thumbs2: 
     
  4. eyeballkid

    eyeballkid Old

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    Things work out for the best! Ironically, I am trying to date a girl that just got out of a divorce last year. She is being really protective of her kids, and herself, It's hard for me to see the other side of the coin. I think you nailed it, man!
     
  5. rattrap007

    rattrap007 Insert witty comment here TFW2005 Supporter

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    Enjoy the single life.
     
  6. MetalRyde

    MetalRyde is an a-hole with a heart.

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    yeah, i hate people too. which is why i usually threaten them when they knock on my door.
    and wear jackets or long sleeve shirts when im in public.
     
  7. Predaking

    Predaking Well-Known Member

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    Good to see you enjoying your newfound freedom. I still love being married but when my wife took our son out of town to see her parents I was free for almost 2 months and that felt great. Just take it easy with your dating life and don't get into another relationship before you are ready.
     
  8. Galaxy Convoy

    Galaxy Convoy Well-Known Member

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    Yeah. That's what a hooker's for :p 
     
  9. Cheetatron

    Cheetatron Eh

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    Nothing wrong with enjoying one's solitude
     
  10. 03Mach1

    03Mach1 Reason Has No Voice

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    Until you hit the dating scene again and have to worry if the chick has a dick or an STD. Wierd stuff out there...no way in hell would I want to be single these days.
     
  11. Chaos Muffin

    Chaos Muffin Misadventure Veteran

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    Being solo is awesome. Glad you're liking it. I used to be a loner, just wanted to be left alone all the time. I was pro at screening calls.
    Now I get lonely if Im by myself for 5 minutes , gotta call somebody or something.
     

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