I need girl advice :(

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  1. Starscream600

    Starscream600 Certified Virtual Pilot

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    So, I met this girl at the start of my school year, she's been my partner for almost every project in school. And she's also my lab partner and she collects TFs too. Lately, she's avoiding me. Very obiously avoiding me. When I tried to approach her to ask her something, she walked away in the opposite direction. When I asked for the other half of the report we were working on, she answered me angrily. When we had to change classes, she usually passes her stuff to me and asks me to put it on her desk but yesterday, she passed her stuff to the guy she told me she hated in class! I didn't do anything to offend her or hurt her. She just started acting this way one day. I need help dudes. :( 
     
  2. IceMagnus

    IceMagnus STARCO FTW!!!!!

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    Try talking to her, she maybe having some troubles at home/school/work. I may be a girl but I know somethings that could help.
     
  3. Sinnertwin

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    Give her the dick
     
  4. Starscream600

    Starscream600 Certified Virtual Pilot

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    I tried... But she just ignored me...
     
  5. firehawc_69

    firehawc_69 cloppers = ignore list

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    Sounds like someone was talking shit about you to her. Get her to talk to you and ask what's up?
     
  6. IceMagnus

    IceMagnus STARCO FTW!!!!!

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    Try doing nice things for her. I learned that one who is doing nice things for another will surely be rewarded.


    I know I suck at advice but I do what I can.
     
  7. Fallout

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    could be just girl things. shit, it could be just people things. i tend to get pissed randomly just for no reason. at least ask her if you did something to offend her. try not to get duper angry or mopey or shit either.

    or she could just want your d, like sinnertwin observed.
     
  8. Starscream600

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    I asked some of her close friends, they said that she was angry with me for not contributing to the latest project. I actually did MOST of the project! I just gave her a simple task of doing up the final report on it! I was the one who did the construction of the model! And she's angry about that? WTF! Her friends added that she would try to stay away from me for these couple of days. What should I do.....?
     
  9. TrueNomadSkies

    TrueNomadSkies Airachnid's ratservant

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    Girls will be girls.



    ... and yeah, I wish I had more to say, but chances are its just that. Keep doing your thing & you should be alright, regardless of how long she keeps up the act.
     
  10. MTME

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    THIS
    As a high school teacher (and a female) this is 99% of the drama I see with my students. A is mad at B but B has not idea why A is mad at her and it turns out people are saying the B was talking shit about A therefore causing A to be mad at B.

    Get it?

    I will bet you that is what it is.

    If she isn't going to talk to you there isn't much you can do unless you want to really directly confront and not take a brush off as an answer but that can also end up badly. Maybe have someone else ask her what is up, why are you pissed at Starscream600??? then have that person report back to you

    EDIT: somehow I missed your latest post, if her friends recommend it stay away from her for a little but maybe she will be ready to talk later and you can defend yourself at that time. And female wise speaking it seriously can be that time of the month because EVERYTHING pisses us off around then whether you did anything or not. Wait a week.
     
  11. Starscream600

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    That's what I did. ^Look at my earlier response.
     
  12. GFH

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    -Are you trying to go out with her? You may be coming on too strong. That's a real put off for me. I met a guy into Transformers and he started following me everywhere, always wearing his TF stuff, offering to lend me his robots. You shouldn't really be surprised if that's the only thing you guys have in common, I refused this guy a date for the same reason.
    -Or it could be the opposite and she's hanging out with other people to get you to make a move, I'm not so sure about that one since she just walked away when you tried to talk to her.
    -Do you do things she doesn't approve of? Party or anything?
    -Did you say something potentially stupid such as discuss your favorite porn sites or comment on the size of another girl's chest/ass? Or tell her about that one time you offered to let another guy give you head? (Yes, this has happened to me.)
    -Since you just met her, there is also the possibility that she is actually just a bag of dicks. It happens.

    Whatever the case, I would just ask her what the issue is. Don't get too attached to her just because she likes Transformers, that is my number one issue with meeting nerdy guys. They think because I'm rather geeky I must be desperate, so they figure they can treat me however they like and it pisses me right off. I hope you're smarter than that.

    *****Upon reading your update, I revise my advice to this; Do not try to convince her you did more work than her. Apologize regardless of what actually happened, and promise to make an better effort the next time. If it happens again, don't even let there be a next time. Simple as that.

    EDIT: And no, you don't really have to do even more work than last time. If you guys are at least 50/50, I'd say you're allowed to bullshit on this one promise.
     
  13. firehawc_69

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    Word.

    Never underestimate PMS.
     
  14. moreprimeland

    moreprimeland Optimus told me to do it! Moderator

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    Maybe she's mad because you bought the last Airachnid. I kid.

    Okay...

    She says she hated the guy, but it might be a case of the opposite being true. It could be if she's interested in him, she wants him to know she's NOT involved with you.

    You can ask her what happened to make her obviously upset with you, she may talk to you or not. If she doesn't, ask another gf of hers, maybe they will tell you what's up...ah, I just saw your post. Try social media, maybe she's posted something that will give you a hint.

    Otherwise, just wait it out, maybe she'll figure out you were a good friend and come back around, if not, move on and find yourself another lab partner and more friends.
     
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    MTME pretty much gave the best advice in the thread, followed by mine.


    Present the D to her, my son. Works 20% of the time 100% of the time
     
  16. Starscream600

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    I like her for her personality, not because she likes TFs. And she's the party animal type, she frequently hangs out at the club I play at on Saturday nights. Think I'm gonna look out for her next Saturday. Oh and the guy following you around is seriously creepy.
     
  17. moreprimeland

    moreprimeland Optimus told me to do it! Moderator

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    Wut? Geez...I don't think so.

    She's a student, who enjoys the clubs, doesn't mean she's a tramp.
     
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    :lol  I know, I'm just wicked bored. OP, for real though, there's some solid advice in this thread. Your girl is probably just mad at an offhand comment you made or something. Just let her cool off a bit, then ask her what's what.
     
  19. moreprimeland

    moreprimeland Optimus told me to do it! Moderator

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    Ah...glad to hear that it was just a wicked moment. :D 
     
  20. BooyakaDragon

    BooyakaDragon I Don't Even Know

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    Stick it in her pooper.......lol jk.
     

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