LOLOL. When I was 15, I sucked at picking up girls. I had no idea what the hell I was doing, but with the crazy hormones kicking around I fancied pretty much anything in a skirt. To the OP, you already have history (however young and immature it was) with this girl, you already have a big advantage. I wouldn't worry too much about it, at the end of the day the worst that can happen is she says no. Alternatively Aernaroths advice seems pretty sound. Its vintage TFW advice, and seems to work.
Seems you've lost contact with her over the years. People change, so don't expect her to be the same person or after the same thing she was back then. I'd invite her out for dinner or something to see if she's still the same. If not, move along because there's nothing left.
Some advice? 1) Don't take advice on love from geeks on the internet. 2) Don't take advice on love from geeks on the internet. 3) Keep a big fat wad of cash rolled up in your pocket. (Larger bills on the outside). Then when she asks, "Is that a roll of bills or are you just happy to see me?" You can say, "Both. That's how I roll, babe."
I didn't deny anything, I just thought you were one of those losers who actually goes and lines up bullshit to determine life and what it has to offer. I don't. SO SORRY I TOOK YOUR COMMENT LITERALLY. Forgive me =) Yeah, you pretty much did call him a failure, and now you are telling him that he has to 'improve' to be attractive. A person should like you for who you are and you shouldn't have to do anything to be different. People waste too much time thinking of what the 'right' things to say would be when 'hi, how have you been all these years?' is pretty easy to start with and the convo will just go from there. Sorry if you 'don't mean' exactly what you are saying but it absolutely looks that way.
who u calling a geek!!! ........ ..jk...i never been called a geek in my life..i am secretly but dont look the part not even remotely..ive been called a jock/gangbanger/thug and houdlum but never a geek...i have geekish tendencies thats for sure seeing as im a die hard trans fan...but i wouldnt consider myself a full bore geek.... its good to hear advise from others..hell his girl might even be a geek..and im sure some of us have full blown degrees in the art of love(myself included).. ..the only good advice for this kid is there is no set way to approach a girl..its like a river... its going to go where it goes..no matter how many dams u put up...eventually the water over time gets to where it needs to be.....L8s
Just be youself and compliment her beauty as in think positive thought about her, Don't say anything that you want changed of her, don't be all mushy on her (it would probably make her creeped out), remove anything that may seem gross or untidy to her and always be on you best behavior. Not that I know about love for girls.
What? Really? 'I love you' *giggles* 'When I grow up, I want to marry you' *giggles* 'If I show you mine will you show me yours?' *giggles*
Guess that's better than... Hey baby, uhh Uhh uhh, uhh Wanna like, do it? Or something? uhh uhh uhh...
Oh boy, well meeting/talking to girls may seem challenging, "understanding" women is a whole other ball game. But that bridge is years away. I'd say just be polite, be calm cool and collected, and it would probably be best not to mention your TF collection on the first date. Better to ease that kind of thing in.
You guys suck, I'm straight and I can pick up girls no problems. You must be doing it wrong, girls just like sexy people. I remember the first time a girl asked me out in high school, I was terrified , then I got used to it. Guys I find are more like "omg, you have vageen?! Let's go at it, yeah!" girls aren't more complicated just higher standards then "anybody in the vicinity".
