How to date a girl who is bi?

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  1. eyeballkid

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    Seriously. I got in touch with a girl who is bi, and she wants me to move back to AZ, where she lives. She has a girlfriend, but it's on and off. She was married for 4 years to a guy, but got divorced. I worked with her in high school 12 years ago, and would have dated her if I had not moved on to college at the time...I hadn't talked to her in years, and now what?
     
  2. General Magnus

    General Magnus Da Custodes of the Emprah

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    Friendly advice, never ask for relationship advice here.. :p 
     
  3. FreshDebesh

    FreshDebesh <b><font color=brickred>oye chak de phatte!</font> Veteran

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    Good luck with that.
     
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    Go slow. Don't rush into it.
     
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    He was asking about dating..not buttsex.
     
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    Well, you aren't seriously considering moving anywhere for her, are you? That's always a bad idea. (I don't know where you live or if it's near Arizona, but I doubt it's a song by Tom Waits.)
     
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    3some, it's not fun to date someone bi if you aren't going to add the 3rd.
     
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    I recommend with another girl.
     
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    Shut up. I didn't mean that.

    I guess I should have said "Don't rush headfirst into asking her. Start off small, and let it grow", huh?
     
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    First of all, ask yourself... do you think a relationship with someone who's bi is going to work out at all?

    Secondly... is it worth moving back just so that you can date this person who's got an on/off girlfriend AND was married to a guy but got divorced?

    Think things through first. If you feel it's worth moving back to date the girl, then go ahead. But if you feel it's not worth it, then don't bother. Just my two cents.
     
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    Yep, I knew this thread was just asking for inappropriate jokes....
     
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    Considering this thread's title, it was doomed to get bombarded with inappropriate responses from the start.
     
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    Nope, still sounds like it...
     
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    Get as much action out of these two chicks as you can. Then tell them both to make you a sammich.
     
  16. eyeballkid

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    The other girl is the opposite of hot. BTW, I used to live in AZ for 6 years, so moving back wouldn't be hard.
     
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    Are you really looking for a relationship? Or just some fun? Just my two cents, but if I was in your situation this would be my inductive reasoning for considering a bi-sexual girl who has a girlfriend and also divorced as dating material:

    1) Not very many other options at the moment. 2) I know exactly how far I can get with this girl, end of a dryspell would be nice. 3) Possiblity of a future threesome with the third party being a cute chick of mutual choice or no deal. (Not a joke, I'm being serious.) 4) Let's face it, I might as well be honest with myself, I'm not relationship material at the moment nor am I looking for it, otherwise, why else would I be considering setting myself up with a short term aint gonna go anywhere situation? 5) It will make a great story for the boys over some drinks one day.

    Again, this is MY inductive reasoning if I was in your situation. However, if the shoe fits...
     
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    Its trouble! Stay away! Been there and it was fun for awhile but it gets old. You never know who you're sharing your girl with.
     
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    You marry them.


    Well, I am anyway. :) 
     
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